If I get a girl's number, is it rushy to call the same day? Also, do you think it's weird to tell a girl I think she's beautiful right off the bat? I have done both of these and I've gotten mixed results. Thank you.
2007-01-08 06:35:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well call her as soon as possible, or text her...GIRLS HATE IT WHEN U GUYS WAIT AND MAKE THE GIRLS CALL...and as long as u dont rush saying things like "i love u" which is completely pycho...then ur totally fine
2007-01-08 06:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would be rude not to call her the same day you get the number because she will be sitting around waiting for the call and will start to get mad when it happens days later. You should wait until later on the same evening but not the next day because attitudes start to form after 9:00 pm and you might not get the response you were seeking. As far as the beautiful thing I would wait until you really know the girl. Some girls will like the compliment while others will only see it as a line to get sex. Just follow the mood and see how things are going.
2007-01-08 14:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by YOYO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, wait a day (at least), she has things to do, you have things to do too. FYI, if you get her VM, don't leave a message, just try again later on, or she'll call you back.
No, it's not wierd to tell a girl she's beautiful right off the bat. But, comment on something about her that's unique. Stay away from the eyes, women get that all the time. The trick is to be sincere about what you think in great about her.
2007-01-08 14:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait about two days, but definitely not longer than that! You could call her the next day if you're anxious to do so, but the same day is a little soon.
Don't give girls compliments that they're likely to get from everyone. If the girl is told she's beautiful by everyone, your compliment really loses it's impact. Find something unusual (but always true) about her, and compliment that. On the other hand, if the girl isn't often told she's beautiful, telling her so will make her very happy.
2007-01-08 14:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by rainy_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling a girl she is beautiful right off the bat shouldn't get you mixed respones. All women love to be told that they are beautiful, even if they don't believe it themselves. I advise no calling the same day. Wait 1-2 days at LEAST. Then call when you say you are going to. Don't say you will call on Tuesday and don't call her until Friday or Saturday. We know you are playing hard to get, but it does hurt our feelings, even if on the outside we show that we don't care.
2007-01-08 14:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls like compliments and flattery so it's not weird to call a girl beautiful (as long as your being honest), Don't call the same day because you might seem desperate, but don't wait too long to call because she might think that you are playing games. 2-3 days is a good time frame. If you are planning on asking her out give her atleast 4 days advance notice.
2007-01-08 14:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by shallybles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the girl like in two days max. Beautiful comments should be made in person not on the phone. Maybe cute, pretty, hot looking. Bottom line what works for you may not work for someone else. Good luck
2007-01-08 14:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i ouwldnt call the same day bcuz then u look desperate. but call her like the next thursday nite and ask her wats shes doin on friday. take her sumwere. movies out to eat. or watever. well i think that depends on the girl. some will think u are a wierdo but others will take it as a compliment
2007-01-08 14:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by sk8rpunkbp69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like being called beautiful and if u call a girl the same day u get her number they dont really care
2007-01-08 14:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you got the number last weekend then call on wednesday after work (depending on how old you are)...but not right after work.....just say whats up and wait for her....the flattering comment is fine as long as you don't obsess over it and keep saying it.....sounds like you need to be a bit patient...if you really like her you don't want to scare her off.. take your time, you will be happier in the end if you do
2007-01-08 14:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's cool that you're so attentive!! Girls like to receive compliments and calls from guys. You're on the right track! Keep in up and you'll be fine.
2007-01-08 14:55:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋