she hates me so bad,I didn't do anything to her,it's just that I'm ugly and she's good looking,she's even ashamed to walk with me in college(when she sees me she totaly ignores me,she always call me ugly and make fun of me in front of everyone and what's worse is that my parents are always with her side,they give her all the attention.(I hate all of them)
today she was with her friends playing with a digital camera so I told her not to take a picture of me then she said:Why would I want to take a picture of your ugly face .at that time I lost it and punched her on her face in front of her friend(I know that what I did is so wrong but I couldn't take it any more)
plz tell me how can I deal with my family? should I just continue my studies and travel to another country so I won't see them anymore?
2007-01-08 06:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Family is not supposed to be like that. She seems angry at you, maybe there is something in you shes jealous of?? are you smarter or something? People don't just dislike people for their looks. She must have a reason to put you down, even if it is just to make herself feel better. Maybe she doesn't have any confidence to be herself around others so she is over confident when talking to you to make up for it. On the parents thing, parents get confused, they make bad mistakes, but you are their child and they love you.
2007-01-08 06:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by ming_ming_2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh oh the places you'll go. First and foremost know that your family loves you, even your hateful sister. If someone else was calling you ugly I'm sure she'd get P*ssed.
Second, there is nothing wrong with taking a break from your family. There is nothing wrong with going out on your own and making your way in this world.
I've found that the trick to being happy, and it is almost a trick, is finding out what makes you feel good and doing it. Figure out what makes you feel good (without punching your sister in the face, although it sounds like she deserved it) and do it.
My philosophy to life is: Do whatever you can to feel good and happy without screwing other people over. That's the best any of us can do.
2007-01-08 06:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't seen your face,but no-bodies ugly. You sister probably hates you cause you are better then her. You don't have to walk with your sister in college let her go her way and you go your. Whatever you family is saying or doing wrong to you it would just make you a bigger, better and a stronger person in the future. They would need you before you need them. Don't make words people say to you make you feel down even if it's your family. Words shouldn't never hurt you. just ignore them. Yes!! finish what you started and go on with your life.
2007-01-08 06:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by dominique e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the exact same problem, mind you i never punched her(at least in the face).
i know how bad it feels, but you still love your family and your sister,(deep, deep, deep, deep down)
try not to just shove it off let her know that it's not cool
when you hold in your anger you'll just explode and well you might just go and punch her in the face(again).
let her know how you feel, get her alone, tell her it hurts and ask her if there's anything you can do to make her stop.
I'm lazy and my sis hates that and that's why he calls me an idiot
what i just told you has been working for me
so give it a shot
-Matt
2007-01-08 06:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by mjeh24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is wrong. It is very bad thing to criticize any body for his appearance. No body can create his own face. One day she must understand the matter. She will be repentant, penitence and contrite.
2007-01-08 06:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by akandaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insist on wearing a paper bag on your head when you have to be in public w/her. She will get the hint.
2007-01-08 06:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Win 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is wrong and childish for that
2007-01-08 06:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋