im lonely and afraid of love and i really just want to see if someone can help me out if you think you can help me out PLEASE try by emailing me or IMing me or something because i am willing to try anything all i need is i guess a friend maybe more i dont know so whats your opinion??
2007-01-08 06:27:10 · 5 answers · asked by xASHx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alot of times when you have been hurt its really hard to start being able to let the guard down to let someone close to you again.
Give yourself sometime. First start with yourself. Look at ways you can feel better and improve things in your life. Once you start to feel better about yourself again then that will help you be able to move on.
Remeber you cant control the other persons behavior or change them, it has to be them. Sometimes some people dont know how to change or want to change. Thats not your fault. So stop blaming yourself and start looking ahead.
I really hope in time you can start to look at life with the glass half full instead of almost empty. good look.
2007-01-08 06:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion of what?? I think your right, everyone needs friends. I've been out there on my own before with no one to lean on. Life can be scary cold and miserable. But it can also be warm and full of laughter. It's something you have to find the strength to go out and get.
I started volunteering at my daughters school, and going to the gym everyday. I didn't meet anyone at those places but it helped me to branch out and not be afraid of meeting someone new.
Don't be scared, your gonna be okay. You already took the first very small step.
2007-01-08 06:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you afraid of love?...that's what you need to ask yourself before you can decide what to do next...have you had a bad experience in the past with love?...love should be enjoyable, trusting, fulfilling...not scary!...the only thing that is scary is being alone
2007-01-08 06:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you???? Send me an e-mail!!! I will try to help! :)
2007-01-08 06:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by ilovechocolate75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't come accross as for real, don't know.
2007-01-08 06:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Bob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋