My boyfriend told me i was the most important thing in the world...and he truely loved me so much - everyone could see that. But he finished with me, saying that he needed to concentrate on a career path and he needed a clear head to do that (i.e - no love life). It hurt but i could somewhat understand him. Now i find out he is actually with a girl i suspected him to be cheating on me with...his bosses daughter no less (this was convienient to why she was always at his work). what really hurts is that he lied to me about her, even when i asked if he was leavin me for someone else -he told me he could never do that to me! he made me feel like i was stupid and paranoid.
Should i confront him now i know? or does that make me more of a loser...its unfair he gets away with it :(
2007-01-08 06:25:31 · 14 answers · asked by good_and_plenty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
swallow it up and move on. don't give him the benefit of the doubt and say nothing to him at all and never take him back no matter how bad you want to. time heals all wounds and someday after they don't make it (cause the way you got him is the way you'll loose him) he will come running back knowing what he once had and then just let him eat his heart out for the rest of his life. cause believe me he will regret it and it will drive him crazy knowing you are not there for him anymore. I know it's hard but you got to let him go and keep yourself busy to keep your mind off him and in a few weeks you will feel better. go on dates don't let him or anyone for that matter ever bring you down. always keep your self esteem, self pride and respect for your self. never let anyone take that from you.
2007-01-08 06:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would write him an email, that way you can choose your words carefully. If you say something in person, you run the risk of getting emotional and him not listening to you. You don't want to make a big deal about it, because then he will just feel good knowing that you still care about him. Make it short and to the point; just tell him you know (now) that he was cheating on you and that it was a despicable and hurtful thing to do (just so he knows that he didn't get away with anything). Seriously, make it a sentence or two, that's it. And after that, cut off communication, be it phone calls or return emails. You deserve better!
2016-05-23 11:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is unfair...awwww! Why does it matter? It's over, you're done, why not go on with your life and be happy, instead of trying to recapture something that no longer exists? The best you could hope for is an embarassing situation that could turn into a brawl or worse...just get a life and try and not be so gullible next time!
2007-01-08 06:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His career path? Looks like he's getting a raise alright! The Boss's daughter! Forget him and move on! Good luck!
2007-01-08 06:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow him off! he is a loser and is fast tracking the bosses daughter just like all the other losers who will cheat on this old bag for the rest of his life just like the boss is doing to his wife.
2007-01-08 06:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the exact same thing happened to me...HE LIED TO U...IF HE CHEATED ON U HE DOESNT LOVE U OR RESPERCT U...CONFRONT HIM AND MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE...i know its really hard, but eventually u will heal, and u will find someone better...what goes around comes around and he will get in a million times worse...AND EVERY GUY SAYS THAT TO A GIRL, ABOUT U BEING THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THE WORLD. is his PU SSY way out...U DESERVE SOOO MUCH BETTER AND NO ONE SHUD BE TREATED LIKE THAT...HES A FAG...ERASE HIM FROM UR LIFE...AND IT WILL BE MUCH EASIER TO GET OVER HIM
2007-01-08 06:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go he is the one who is the loser,you can always find someone else that will love you for you and not lie to you.
2007-01-08 06:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats would be the point of doing that? it'll only make you feel worse. Just forget about it no matter how much it hurts.
2007-01-08 06:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by cib0385 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call him out on it but dont let him know that it bothers you that you two are no longer together and wish him the best of luck with us life...kill him with kindness
2007-01-08 06:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by workit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could confront him. if for no other reason than ur satisfatoin because i doubt that he will change. so u need to do watever will make u get over this. if that is talking to him or jus lettin it go. its up to u
2007-01-08 06:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by sk8rpunkbp69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋