How do you kill loneliness?

Question

I broke up with my boyfriend and moved to a new school. I'm so bored and lonely all the time. I do study and read, but is there anything else I can do to make good use of my time and pass time quickly? Thank you.

Answer 1

write a story, spend time with friends. Pick your fav movie or game and look up an online form about it. There was forms about everything you like art join an art form and chat about it. Start an involving video game!!

Answer 2

As a retired mental health practitioner / counselor with 20+ years experience, and as a human being who has lived many times in "loneliness-provoking" situations, I can tell you that you already have some good mechanisms in place to cure loneliness, but funneh's got some really good answers too! I'm sure you know that sometimes you have to force yourself to "take cures" that your "illness" of loneliness keeps pulling you away from, but do it anyway. Funneh's got the best recommendations, including her final caveat to find a healthy activity, not just any activity. You may make mistakes on your way out of loneliness, but who hasn't, so don't let that concern "eat you up". I worked with a physician in my practice who had the most "down-to-earth" solutions, and one he kept telling people was simply go for a walk. Nothing strenuous, just relaxing, with a little quick-paced part as your body seemed to loosen up after a little bit of your walk so that you can get your heart and lungs pumping and get fresh oxygen into your brain. That alone will cure a lot of loneliness, and you might meet other people doing the same thing, and then have a second step to curing loneliness under way. You just have to force yourself to do things to counter loneliness since it has a nasty tendency to keep you from all the healthy activities. That's just what loneliness does. And, finally, there's the element of time that's necessary to heal from the stress of breaking up with someone. It's not easy, even if the relationship was bad, so, do your activities, and give yourself some time, and you'll be feeling great in a short time. I promise you. God Bless you.

Answer 3

If you aren't mentally and emotionally open, you can still be lonely, even surrounded by people.

For the most part, breakups require some time to get over them. Hate to put it like that, but it's true, you'll feel better eventually.

Until then, throw yourself into your schoolwork, and remain open to make new friends. Consider joining a club of some kind if there's something you enjoy doing, or you think you might enjoy. Don't allow yourself to become a hermit. Eventually, you'll find yourself making friends.

If you try to make BFF's immediately, yeah, it's going to be difficult. Right now, I'd just focus on you and the work you have ahead of you.

Answer 4

You could join after school activities and that way you will meet new people and have someone to hang out with. If your the shy type just get a dog.

Answer 5

What you're missing is human interaction. For the time being, talk to people on the internet, it's easy and convenient. Kind of like disposable social interaction. Until you get by.

Answer 6

Well you could find a fitness club and meet new work out buddies?
You can also go to the web personals and find a chat friend?

Answer 7

Get interested in some one else. Love's the answer.
Nico

Answer 8

okay answer yahoo answers, orkut, read, write, drive, eat, chat (online/offline) learn new things. Practice old passions. Etc etc., best of all you can sleep if you want to

Answer 9

hang out with people. Fill loneliness with peeps.

Answer 10

get on the cpu, talk to people, myspace.com, eat, sleep, live life