i am 14 year old girl, and my parents think i still need a babysitter. This wouldnt be a problem but my parents hire some guy from a babysitting service and not family or a neighbor. This old man keeps trying to make a move on me saying "lets tuck you into bed" and "time for your bath" Its really gross, how do i get it to stop?
2007-01-08 06:13:33 · 24 answers · asked by neff8684 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
What country do you live in? That's right. America. Move to Canada and your problem is solved. It's a historical fact that in Canada the last problem of any sort occured in 1974 right after the Dutch won the olympics and there was a two man riot at a local grocery. It ends up the riot was just two middle-aged men in a heated discussion.
2007-01-08 06:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that your parents are not careful enough leaving you with a hired baby sitter which is a man. If what your saying is true and you just don't want to get attention or make everyone freak out here in the answers, then as a 14 yr. old, you must know what to do. There's police station to report cases like this and of course your parents to be informed of the misbehaviour of this alledged baby sitter. You are not a young girl anymore but a teen-ager. You can protect yourself. Just do it.
2007-01-08 14:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and call the police, IMMEDIATELY. This man should NOT be working for a sitting service. If you're parents don't call the police, do it yourself. No one should be hitting on a 14 year old girl. Your parents need to know this is going on and if they're good parents, they'll contact the police and you'll never see the sitter again. Best of luck!
2007-01-08 14:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon L - Gavin's Mommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually baby sitting services attract pedophiles.You are 14 years old,you don't need to be tucked into bed anymore or to be told it's time for your bath.So go directly to your parents and tell them exactly what you're telling us.If nothing is done about it talk to your counselor at school or someone you trust.Good Luck.
2007-01-08 14:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your parents that he is making you feel uncomfortable in the way he is handling you. Tell them you feel sexually threatened and if anything happens to you after you tell them what you have, that they are now resposible for what was done to you. Tell them, then make them own what actions are done there after. If this guy tries anything with you at all Hurt him in a really bad way punch him in the face and run to a neighbors house. You have nothing to prove. I would copy this question you have posted and keep it for proof of your concern of this freak ahead of what might happen in the future. Be careful and stay aware.
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2007-01-08 14:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them what's happening. If that doesn't work on its own, have a note pad and pencil handy and when he says things like that make a note of exactly what he said and the time, make sure he knows you are doing this and explain to him that you think his behaviour is inappropriate but to be sure you are planning on telling your parents and the agency he is working for.......see how he reacts to that. Most people like that are major cowards but to be on the safe side make sure you have an escape route, even if thats running out to a neighbours house incase he gets nasty. Don't put up with it, even if he means nothing by it if it makes you uncomfortable it's not acceptable.
2007-01-08 14:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told you parents about this??? and anyhow, who in their right mind leaves a 14 year old with some man they don't even know... Sound to me like your parents need to listen to the news and read the paper about predators..... They are just giving this guy the key and letting him have the run of the place and you if he wants it sounds like to me...
2007-01-08 14:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Blondie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about it. The least they should do is get another baby sitter. You should have spoken to them by now. Don't wait! And, you all should consider speaking with the babysitting service... and if they do not give you
a satisfactory answer, report them ... if you are not sure who to call, call the police and get them
to suggest someone ...
2007-01-08 14:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on, two days ago you said the same thing, but you said it was an old lady putting the moves on you. Are there two babysitters making moves on you or are you seeking attention from Yahoo Answers?????? If this is real, just tell your parents - like the people told you two days ago.
2007-01-08 14:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by bibliobethica 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Tell your mom he is doing this, I guarentee you he won't be over again. If they won't listen to it next time he hits on you, go to your room call the cops and tell them your old dirty babysitter is hitting on you. Don't tell him you called! When the police get there explain the situation. Your parents are BOUND to listen to you then.
2007-01-08 14:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by HushYourFuss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋