i have been modeling for about 6 months. My boyfriend and i have been together for about 2 years, but i started to model during the 3 months that we were broken up. i'm a part of a female car modeling group and when i mentioned the up-and-coming car show this weekend he totally flipped out. he called me a hooker and that i had to pick between him and modeling. (since the outfit i have to wear is hardly hooker-esque) I told him that there was nothing wrong with it and that i would continue because of the friends i have in it, the fun i have, and the money is a plus too! he doesn't seem to understand though. Please!!! give me advice as to what i should do!!
2007-01-08 05:30:52 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KEEP DOING YO THANG.IF MODELING MAKE YOU HAPPY THEN KEEP DOING IT.IF HE DON'T LIKE IT THAN GET AT ME!I DON'T MIND IF YOU MODEL.AS LONG AS YOUR HAPPY!
2007-01-08 06:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone who broke up with a girl who modeled, I can understand where he's coming from. But my situation was different.
I'm in NY. She spent 3-4 months a year in Italy for photo shoots and things... so it just wasn't a good fit. We dated for a couple of months and then she was leaving for Milan for a month.
I broke up with her the day before... because she's gonna be in Milan, surrounded by male models... and I'm gonna be alone, with my guy friends... and we'd both have been cheating. Why bother, just be friends.
Your boyfriend is just too jealous. You need to do things to assure him that it's just a job. Tell him that, "Yes, I do enjoy the attention of people looking at me, but that's all. The only hands I want touching me are yours."
2007-01-08 05:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, by no ability do what some different person tells you, i tried to be a style once or maybe as i began wearing appealing outfits and having to take %. with diverse warm adult men. He were given soo pissed. i finished being a style yet now he needs to and he's telling me i more effective useful no longer get mad at him for being one. i imagine you may nonetheless be a style are literally not making an identical mistake, confer with him about it. tell him you pick to be a style and if he nonetheless receives mad or says you are able to't then you definitely could come across a sparkling bf. good success on your discision
2016-12-28 09:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by eastridge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be with someone that does not respect your job and something that you love. if their was something that he loved trust me he would not give it up for you. and what's with the name calling . he called you a hooker and why would you want to be with a man that feels like that. and to make you choose ha ha. I'm glad your not gonna stop and if he keeps up this way he is showing you he is a down low control freak and he is about to explode so i say run know why you still can lol
2007-01-08 05:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to make him understand how inmortant it is to u that u do this, and he needs to understand that u have a job and that u are doing what makes u happy, dont let him take that from u, thats not fare for u, also have have ur friends work on him about it, if he can go let him so he can see that its not that bad, if u need more help e-amil me anytime
2007-01-08 05:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by legalboy2_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, perhaps he is jealous that you are showing off your body to so many others. While he may find you to be attractive in both your body and personality, he's concerned that you'll only be "objectified" by the larger crowd of men. His concerns are for your safety and for the health of your relationship with you.
His comments may have been a bit crude, but I think he's just upset and cannot find the right words...
2007-01-08 05:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't understand you then he isn't worth it. It doesn't sound wrong to me. Think about what you would rather give up. There are other jobs out there and there are other men out there. I can't really tell you what to do, just to think before you do it.
2007-01-08 05:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by maryfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you have an ultimatum on your hands. Choose for yourself though.
2007-01-08 05:34:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is jealous and pretty insecure
2007-01-08 05:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by tchem75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some sweet luvin and tell him how much he means to you ~~ if he is your bf for 2 years,please be considerate and also count his opinion in...coz im sure he cares bout you... okiee...
2007-01-08 05:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋