My name is Cristina and I'm blonde, skinny, green-eyes and everything. Most guys say I'm hot but, there's this problem, I'm hanging with 6 guys right now and they all say the same thing, "You're HOT"!, wanna make out"? And I don't know if they like me for who I am or because of my appereance? And another thing, I'm a goth and they say it's even hotter. Plus, I'm only 18 and I'm scared if something could happen to me by one of those guys. Please help!
2007-01-08 05:29:31 · 16 answers · asked by Cristina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK if the guys are saying you're hot wanna make out that should be your first clue that they are just out for the goods. Tell them you are saving yourself for marriage and see if they still want to hang out with you. Sex should not be the center of attention to guys, but unfortunately it is sometimes. If these guys are around your age that is understandable for them to act like that, for the reason that women mature faster than BOYS. Anyhow I wish you the best of luck, and for right now, just do you and what makes you happy and if they don't like that then theyt weren't worth the time you hung out with them.
2007-01-08 05:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by mdsmith9372 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose men and women can difference; I simply do not consider such a lot ever particularly do. True private difference is a rough LONG approach, and from the sound of it I do not consider whatever is real specific approximately this man. I'd be inclined to be he is stated to you that he converted so that you could love him once more or that you simply might be in combination. No one ever alterations for a further man or woman. Whether it is smoking or ingesting or dishonest problems if he stated he converted for you he hasn't converted in any respect and can fall off the wagon finally. People most effective real difference seeing that they themselves desire to difference. Changing for some other purpose external of themselves is false and superficial and may not final, gauranteed. Good success.
2016-09-03 18:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, perhaps you need to tell 5 of them that you're currently dating the 1 that's left. If you cannot choose, then you will have this type of problem. As for being "only 18"...I'm assuming that the men you have described are much older. If that is the case, be careful with their intentions.
2007-01-08 05:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being a 20 yr old guy and knowing how guys think...I would say they are just into your looks if that's all they wanna do is make out. Their ultimate motive could be to get you in bed but that's really only speculation, although a good one. I would say hangout and if you do choose one of them to do more than hangout...only do what your comfortable with. Make sure you talk to him and try to get to know him. Getting to know someone is always the best way to go. If the guy does like you for you, he will wanna do more than just physical stuff, like get to know you better.
2007-01-08 05:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by doug_distel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend is 21, and when she was 18, she went through the same thing with guys crawling ALL over her. that isnt the way to go. before you attempt to make out, even if the urge is there, get to know someone first. we all want to make out, or fool around, etc. but it is going to leave you with regret and an empty inner self. my friend is beyond beautiful and she ended up with 13 guys (sex wise) in the last few years, and i know that is extreme. but she cries herself to sleep, and wishes she could change it. these guys might think that you are pretty, but they just want one thing overall. how many ask you really important questions? they dont do they, so right there shows you they want your mouth around something, and what is between your legs. with the current girl i am dating, it took 10 dates for me to finally kiss her, and i tell you, it was worth the wait. things are not instant in life, and you need to take your time with anyone. yes YOU might find them hot, but you look into the mirror everyday, and you need to make a firm stand on who is worthy enough to get your lips pressed up against their's. dont screw this up, b/c my friend lives with that everyday regret, and it haunts her to this day. i think you'll make the right choice. good luck!
2007-01-08 05:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by brianju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something gross so u scare some of these guys. Sounds like they re a bunch of losers anyways
2007-01-08 05:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen this is high school they all just probally know that all of them are talking to you if you want a realationship you kinda need to start knocking some of theese guys off and find one who you like or just keep doing what your doing its up to you
2007-01-08 05:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well find someone who likes you for you!!!
Always take a friend with you!!!
Do you like having sex or the guys all over you?
2007-01-08 05:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 bucks says that theyre fooling out wit u. if not that they just want sum poon. i wud call the cops. if u really like em tho is a 7way possible?
2007-01-09 14:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by calvin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be so worried, however I think they mostly like your looks, but I see no harm in that, it's normal.
So listen to your heart, if you feel like making out with them, do it, only if you like it and you think you'll enjoy it.
2007-01-08 05:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋