i meet that perosn we do like each other & he asked me many times for a kiss.
i feel like doing this cause i love him some how but i feel he want to do it just of the kissing it self.
do i need to do this although he is not much in to me
2007-01-08 05:25:46 · 17 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, kiss him when you feel it is the appropriate time and when you are ready.
2007-01-08 05:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It's hard to give advice without knowing how old you are. You DON'T need to kiss anyone you don't want to kiss!!! However, I am a little confused. First, you claim you both like each other. Then you say you love him and he is hardly into you. Which is it? I suggest you get clear on your thoughts and his. A kiss is perfectly natural if you like someone and I'm sort of confused as to why you are so against it. If you are young, then wait until you are ready. Only do what you are comfortable with. If you are an adult, I suggest you see a counselor who can help you figure out what's really going on. Good luck!
2007-01-08 13:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Swim Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are five languages of love, and physical touch is one of them. (I won't elaborate on the other four.)
This means that for that person to feel love, he/she needs to have some physical contact with the person he/she loves. I do not mean sex, but kissing and hugging. Maybe this guy needs you to kiss him to make him feel that you like him. Since you feel like doing so yourself too, why not? You don't have to limit yourself by not kissing him at all. I enjoyed kissing with my girlfriend but she doesn't enjoy it much for some reason (it is not her language of love). But she still kiss me everytime we go home. You can do that too. Kiss him after he sees you home, but not during dating, or watching movie, etc. Just after he sees you home. Slowly then progress to kissing him when you want to. Good luck in your relationship!
2007-01-08 13:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Schizophrenic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it if you are not sure a kiss is something easy to do but involves so much and is very personal you hold on.
Your kisses should be special with someone you love and care about it, make him work for it.
2007-01-08 13:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! why? because you know it already that his attraction towards you is just a physical one. there's no 'real' feelings there. a first kiss with someone you like should be something memorable and sweet. and you should be sure of it. if your filled with doubt then it means that you should most probably cut this guy loose. he's not a good one. and remember: everytime you have doubts, they're there for a reason.
2007-01-08 13:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, you have to kiss him. It will tell you a great deal about his true affections. Now get to kissing!
2007-01-08 13:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do with feels ok to you, you should never kiss or sleep with someone only because they desire it. You should do it because it is something you both want.
2007-01-08 13:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by a25isha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you are ready. If he likes you he will wait. You can never get back that 1st kiss with someone.
2007-01-08 13:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by bb77blueeyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are just being used don't kiss him.
2007-01-08 13:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's never an obligation for intimacy, be it a kiss or anything else. If you want to do it, then do it...if you don't, then do not.
2007-01-08 13:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋