You people out there please tell me...
I dont know how to cope with such a loss... Ive got a huge void in my life now, someone I depended on is gone...
I try going out, i feel empty...
I try talking to others, I find my self not being able to talk....
....
any suggestions im sure someone has been through it
2007-01-08 05:24:15 · 12 answers · asked by zach b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time, Zach sweetie, time. You need to give yourself lots of it. Time heals a lot. A lot. There will be another love. But, it takes time.
2007-01-10 15:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best you can do is, keep things to yourself.. you are the only one that has the solution to your problems, if you go around and try to find solutions all you are going to find is a "I am sorry for you, leave it in the past" but never an solution, so what you need to do is see the good side of it, because things happen for a reason, now you have to learn from your mistakes and make sure you dont do those mistakes in your next relationship, I know is hard, but you have to taught it up and be ready for your next relationship..
Ps. Trying to find another person in your life dont work, it makes you feel worst because you dont reflect any happiness, sorry but its true, unfortunately girls have that instict and can tell wether you are confident or not.
2007-01-08 05:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will heal.
Do something that will draw you attention away. Try doing some charity work. Try to go to school and take some classes that you never thought will take, like art, painting, ceramics. Take some sports classes.
Also, if you can not talk to a live person. Use a recorder or your pc and talk to your pc.
Write some diary and express what you think and feel.
Don't keep it inside of you.
2007-01-08 05:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep ur self ocupied with activities
do some fun things
stop talking about ur situation
pursue new hobbies
believe time is ur helper
but in the meantime u need to keep ur self busy and
stop talkin about it
the more u talk about it the more u stay stuck on the very same issues and u will get more depress good luck
2007-01-08 05:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it' s just too soon. There is no substitute for passage of time for healing the heart. I think you need to fill that void with something, maybe doing something for others? If all else fails, ice cream helps.
2007-01-08 05:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am - I feel like I hav elsot my whole world. Or I used too anyways.now i know that was not true and there is someone somewhere who will be even better for me and make me fall in love again.
You have to give someone a chance.
Love is not always INSTANT it takes time too. And trying.
Get over your ex. Contact them let them know how you feel and move on.
You ware wasting yoru precious time.....you ll be old and lonely
2007-01-08 05:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need counseling to deal with the void, then and only then can you truely move on. You have to fill that void your self not someone else.
2007-01-08 05:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find you!! And just give it time. I know it is hard, and only Jesus and time can heal this kind of hurt.
My lost love died from a drunk driver, only time healed my heart and my confidence and love for life mended it back together enough to fall in love again. And I did
2007-01-08 05:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by Dolphinmarine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try listening to the song Whiskey Lullabye. It should help you
2007-01-08 05:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by Meatball ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it take time
lot of prayers
take one day at the time
that are the only advise I can give you
Good luck & Congradulation
2007-01-08 05:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋