I have tried finding a decent guy who loves me for me not my body, but it seems imposible. Where is he???
2007-01-08 05:22:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am here, but unfortunately, I am taken...
2007-01-08 05:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to tell all the young single women who worry about finding a man that this will happen in due time. I am 28 years old and I am still single and you probably think I do not know what I am talking about because of this, but I have found my own purpose and happiness in life. Yes, people might feel a little sad for me because they are "happily married" and I am still single, but you never know if that same couple will be in divorce court five years from now. With the instability of dating and marriage I have chosen not to spend my time waiting on Mr. Right. Two years ago I always thought about meeting a decent guy, but now I think about doing things that make me happy. If I meet Mr. Right it will be the cherry on top of my ice cream, but I try not to think about it at all. Really I feel this works for me, but if you think I am wrong you can just say see she is single and alone. However, I think it is better to be alone than to rush out to be alone in a relationship. When people get married at an older age they know more about what they want and will have the ability and the confidence to make things work out. Thus, I think it is not so bad if you do not find Mr. Right right away because he will come along as soon as you are busy being happy.
2007-01-08 05:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is exactly where you should be right now! He is focusing on his life and who he wants to be as a person and Man in your life. He is in the making & so should you (trust there is always goals to add to the list) so instead of waiting, wondering & wishing, do something good for yourself & quit worring about him, because he WILL eventually make an apperance in your life, mean while enjoy your life & your self. you have to learn& like beeing alone, because if you can't be by yourself what makes you think you can be with someone else! Big Hug & one more thing there isn't such thing as a Mr. Right, but there is a Mr. Just Right For You!
2007-01-08 05:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's somewhere. Yeah, I know you have a great body, but I also know that you are a human being too. Most men think this way. The problem is that it feels so good kissing and carressing you that, it's difficult to get back to the other aspects of you which are just as appealing.
2007-01-08 05:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, your looking at the emotional dimension only, but it is also physical. as far as I know every guy would care about their partner's body. say that you're a very good person but if you don't have a good look chances of approaching guys to you are slim, but when you have an outer beauty as well as inner beauty then you have the best chance.
I would suggest that always keep your body and looks in shape, but be sure that you're nice enough that someone could love you for who you are not your body.
2007-01-08 05:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Mr. Right" is a myth perpetuated by the romantic-comedy filmmaking industry.
While Mr. Right doesn't exist, the good news is that there are men who will love you for who you are. I know this because I'm a man who loves his wife more than she will ever understand, and this love isn't dependent upon any outside factors. I just love her. It sounds simple, but I know it isn't.
2007-01-08 05:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry that right man will come to you soon. Something I have been told is to never accept anything less than what your worth so if you hold out for you truely believe the right guy is for you he will find his way to you someday.
2007-01-08 05:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by buttons527 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry but he's taken look for mr right-now who knows he might just turn out to be the one best of luck
2007-01-08 05:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by tease :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Southwest Massachusetts..Come on over
2007-01-08 05:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be happy with what you have or at least try to be and just live your life and when you least expect it walla. I use to think like you-don't feel sad or desperate-he'll come it is just a matter of time!
2007-01-08 05:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three blocks down, turn right...fouth house on the left.
2007-01-08 05:24:43 · answer #11 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋