I'm trying to reach someone who I used to work with. I fell in love with her but never told her how I really felt about her, and I've only seen her once in two years. I recently learnt that she may be planning to do something drastic to her body, and even though I really hope it works out for her, I'm worried for her state of mind if it doesn't do for her what she wants it to do.
I miss her so much and if I could just find a way to see her again, I take any possible option. Even if it meant I could only have her back in my life as my friend, rather than not have her in my life at all, then that's what I'd be willing to do.
She means so much to me even though we've not seen each other for so long, as she was someone who I looked up to and respected as well as loved.
2007-01-08 05:19:42 · 13 answers · asked by Stephen H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get in touch nothing heavy just as a friend who has been thinking about her and wanting to c how she is doing let her let u into her life be persistent but not pushy dont go for the whole love thing u will know as ur friendship grows if there is a natural chemistry but like i,ve said nothing to heavy u dont want to scare her off xx
2007-01-08 05:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by blonde286021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would seem less about concern for her intended course of action, and more a bit of a flimsy excuse to get in contact with her again. Her decisions are hers to make, whether you agree with them or not. Concern about her state of mind? Again, not your responsibility. If she's considering surgery the surgeon will assess her mental suitability, as well as physical. This all seems a little deperate. Personally, I think your time would be better spent in counselling discussing why you are obsessing about her.
2007-01-08 13:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
serchfor her in the phone book or go back to where you worked with her and ask for some info stop her and let her no that you love her even if she dont have anything altered to her body and that you will love her still but sometimes loveing someone means letting them make their mistakes and you being there to pick up the pieces either way best of luck to you hope you find her before its too late
2007-01-08 13:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out about her doing something drastic to her body - could you ask them for her contact details ?
2007-01-08 13:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a Plane with a big Banner on the back then crawl around her back garden at night dressed in black
2007-01-08 13:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try and get in contact with people she might know or who know her.
2007-01-08 13:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by ghostfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in love....only seen her once in 2 years and you think you have ther right to tell her what o do with her body? back off dude.
2007-01-08 13:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by kt 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
cant say as your quest seems have no real substance to give you any sort of advice
2007-01-08 13:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a private detective if you're serious.
2007-01-08 13:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you have her number, or an adress, or even know anyone who knows where she lives?
2007-01-08 13:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by natalia121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋