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Hey my name is flo and my boyfriend cheated on me with a girl i work with and now its killing me i really dont think i can work der anymore i still love him to bits what will i do???

2007-01-08 04:10:21 · 25 answers · asked by flojo06 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

25 answers

Ditch the b*stard and start looking for a new job.

Good luck, pet :-)

2007-01-08 04:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0 0

Hey Flo,

If its any help, everyone has been there at one point or another in their lives. Its a saying that you will have heard over and over but time will heal things. When I was in that position it really messed me up. The girl I was seeing cheated on me with some guy who was like 50, she used the excuse that she was going back home from university to go to her dads grave when really she was seeing him. Completely sick. Change your job and move on your better than him, way you need to see it is how can you love anyone that would do that to you.

Wishing you all the best.

2007-01-08 04:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you stop working at your job Flo will think she's got the upper hand. Did you forgive your boyfriend for this betrayal or did you dump him? If you all broke up because of this then let it fly. You work to make a paycheck not friends. And you loved once you will love again. But if this is his first time cheating, forgive and keep him if you want, but remember once you forgive him you can no longer bring it up. As for Flo she was just something to do. He was bored spend more time with him.

2007-01-08 04:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lele 1 · 1 0

Hi Flor

Sorry to hear wot u are going through. First, pls kick ur ex-bf in the nuts, if i ever see him, i'll do it, ok?

Second, let your colleague know that you knw all abt it.

Do not leave the company, why should you? She should be the one ashame and should leave the company.

Be professional about it, i mean, she's the one who likes to wear the old shoes, right?

I wouldn't encourage u to quit ur job just because she is there, i mean, just imagine, if u were to join a new co and the same sh!t happen, are u going to move again?

Be strong girl and be proud of yourself that u can be strong and be totally over with that jerk.

2007-01-08 04:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Sounds like a good time to start over with your life. Get a new job, get a new boyfriend...re-invent yourself and enjoy your life. In a year or two you might see one, or even both of them, and you'll reflect on what losers they are and how much happier you are without them in your life. There's nothing that hurts like seeing your ex happier without you. Living well really is the best revenge!

2007-01-08 04:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by txjenn1 2 · 0 0

I think you have two options: tell everyone where you work that this girl is a boyfriend stealing slag, or find a new job.

Good luck; the chances are you are better off without him anyway.

2007-01-08 04:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 2 0

Try not to say anything to the girl its not her foult but if you feel like you cant trust him anymore than I think that you should leave him

2007-01-08 04:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sweetie if he does it once he'll do it again even if he says he wont!!
But maybe leave both you will be so much more at ease

2007-01-08 04:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0 0

really, im tired of all this cheating cheating cheating story. its not new. just deal with it. and if ur looking for a new boy friend then say it. im single anyways

2007-01-08 04:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Does this girl feel guilty about what she has done? If not, then I'd leave, as the place is beneath you...

2007-01-08 04:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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