Heya, i had my first kiss a few weeks ago but it was awful...there was alot of tongues and i dint no what do expect...i had to stop half way through cos i hated it so much but tomorrow this guy that i have liked for ages wants me to ''get off with him'' and im shy around him as it is....im nervous cos i am scred i will ruin it by doing it wrong!!
2007-01-08 04:01:51 · 8 answers · asked by confused at college 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All people are different, so are their lips. I didnt have my first kiss till i turned 17 years old. I didnt know how to kiss and then i was nervous when someone kissed me, he was like wow i am good kisser. I was confused. Then later i started to make out a lot of guys,ahh interesting, they are different kissers, some of them umm ewww. Why dont you get it easy and stop him if u feel uncomfortable. You have A RIGHT to stop if you dont feel comfort. You always can ask him to teach you how or he has to get easy and calm kisser. Its always the best. If yuo are nervous to do it, then don't do it. Wait till right time and feel comfortable to do it.
2007-01-09 03:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Frijoles, Batwoman! Put some ice on those jets!
Your first kiss was a disaster because the person kissing you was a cad!
And now you want to ruin things by going even further with a guy that's as bad or worse than the first guy? He's not interested in YOU: he's interested in sexing you up -- for one or both of these reasons:
1) he just wants to use you as a thing to help him satisfy his prurient interests;
2) he wants to humiliate you
Best thing for you to do is stay away from those people until you're ready to do that sort of thing with a person you love -- and you'll have the wisdom then to be able to tell when some hottie is actually a decent guy or just a jerk.
You totally don't want to let some jerk re-wire your brain through the process of orgasm: you'll end up being his slave, following him around all the time like a little puppy or worse.
You're DEFINITELY not ready for the level of intimacy that you're playing with.
2007-01-08 12:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by wireflight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U DONT LIKE IT DONT DO IT!! i hate to kiss its gross and the mouth has more germs than ANY other body part!! what do u mean get off?? i HOPE u dont mean have sex!! u seem young WAIT 4 SEX!! u need to have much info on it and life experience read up about the MANY s.t.d. s out there 1st!! if u just had ur 1st kiss u r soooo not ready 4 sex!! a guy who cares 4 u will respect u! and never push u to do something u dont want to! seeing u happy should make him happy!!
2007-01-08 12:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by SEXY CRML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even THINK about kissing him if you are at all uncomfortable about it. Your body is a temple and you deserve to treat it the way it should be treated. Don't force yourself to do anything that you might later regret and remember that you never, ever have to give in to what your boyfriend says. If he's truly a good guy, he will stay with you even if you don't want to french kiss.
2007-01-08 12:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think french kissing is gross, just tell him you dont like it and telll this other guy too some guys like to make out with a girl whos a rookie in the kissing department
2007-01-08 12:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o, poor u, a guy u like wants to make out w/u... jk. but it'll be fine. just dont move at first like ur just getting into him then do what he does. and good luck!!!
2007-01-08 12:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just slow down and let your partner take the lead...it will all come naturally
2007-01-08 12:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
then don't............
2007-01-08 12:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋