about 5 months ago i broke up with my last boyfriend. to be honest i liked him, but i wasnt in love, and i couldnt deal with that. so we broke up, but i continued to have sex with him every couple weeks. until i asked if i should continue doing so, on yahoo answers, then i decided to not have sex with him anymore because of all the insightful responses. but i still think about him, i just want his world to be perfect, i know i am not the one to do so, but i want to be his friend. the other night he texted me and we chatted then he asked me to come over, and i know if i go over there what he is expecting. i told him i didnt think it was a good idea, but the next day i kind of regretted it. yesterday was his birthday and i sent him a nice text saying happy bday and everything. should i try things out again, or just forget it, or start having sex with him again?
2007-01-08 03:26:20 · 6 answers · asked by Fran Y 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's just using you for s*x and if that's what you want, then keep doing what you're doing. After a while though, it WILL get old for you. Many women can't just have un-attached "relations" constantly without having some sort of emotions about it.
Face it, this situation is not making you happy or feel good and that's when it's time to drop things. You're worth more than that.
2007-01-08 03:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont love him theres no reason to go back, because you will find someone else that you do love that will want you to be with them and just them. But if you can't remain just friends with ur ex then maybe u do love him a lil more than you think...like the quote " If u broke up and are just friends you were never in love or your not just friends"...i would just forget it.
2007-01-08 11:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by kshaw91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i answered one of the questions asked previously on this individual. YOU ARE JUST ASKING FOR TROUBLE TO COME INTO YOUR LIFE. It's time to move on. Find someone else and be happy, don't waste your life on this jerk. He's just using you for sex and that's all.
2007-01-08 11:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only sex leads to mixed emotions and maybe you dont care too much since you did the breaking up [i think!?], but maybe he does and you'll end up leading him on. or vice versa....
if you dont want to hurt him and you dont want to get hurt yourself, keep it as NORMAL friends not friends w/ benefits.
find someone else who can fulfill both the sex and the emotional....as you know, he's not the only guy in the world
2007-01-08 11:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by suede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its OK to be friends and stay in touch, but dont keep leading him on or having sex with him.
move on and find another BF.
2007-01-08 11:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well if your going to regret it then stop but if you arent keep doin wht your doing
2007-01-08 11:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋