2007-01-08 03:24:29 · 14 answers · asked by mrfrazrrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Assuming you asked her, yes. Especially so. The assumption is that you constructed the date and can afford it.
If you couldn't afford it you probably would have either done something simpler or waited until some later time.
So, it is appropriate.
2007-01-11 07:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Carl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO , yes it is very appropriate and I always find it as a very nice gesture. In fact I have never gone out on a date where we each paid our own way. It would be a huge turn off to me! Some people may have different thoughts about this, but trust me: woman want to be with someone who can provide for them. If I pay my own way, it's like I'm not being provided for.
If you can't afford a meal and activities, there are always activities that are free such as walking around the park, etc.
Or you could cook her dinner (which is cheaper than going out to a nice restaurant) and then rent a movie.
Good luck!
2007-01-08 03:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kristen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is it appropriate, it is the right thing to do. I do not see how you could ask a woman who has caught your eye out to enjoy her company and not do what is require of a gentleman. This is simply over looking the fact that you would care to treat her as a lady should be. A good impression on the first date is what will keep you in her favor. You must realize that everything about this first date and every minute you spend in her presence should be considered an honor. You must treat her with the up most dignity and respect. Do all that you can to assure her that chivalry is not dead and you were honest and sincere of wanting to spend time with her. Courtesy and respect is what you should show her on your date.
2007-01-08 03:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by ?Confused? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is appropriate but it all depends on who you take out on a date.
2007-01-08 03:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the very shown reality that you call a lady a "chick" tells me plenty about you....and illustrates the tremendous generational hollow that lies between us. personally, i think it relies upon upon various of aspects, and it isn't achieveable to generalize. Is it a first date? Is it a "date" or basically an off-the-cuff assembly? what's her approximate age and intelligence....or per chance I could say her savoir-faire? what's her personality, i.e. is she self guaranteed and assured or an ingenue? Please forgive me....i extremely advise it!....yet your insistence upon paying implies (to me) a lack of self-self belief.....and now i'm generalizing, i do not favor to be to blame, nor do i think threatened if my date insists upon paying. i'll even imagine eventualities in which she might want to pay for both one individuals. My masculinity isn't depending upon being to blame, yet then, i'm particular i'm no longer your ordinary male. i'm a mushy human being and many adult men, to their experience sorry about, have equated my gentleness with weak spot.
2016-12-28 09:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by barksdale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely yes
2007-01-08 03:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure is in the U.K However I would ask the girl if she doesn't mind you paying as some women think you are taking control and don't like it.
2007-01-08 03:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by youronmyfoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Unless, of course, the couple discussed it beforehand, and reached an agreement that both should pay.
2007-01-08 03:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is appropriate
2007-01-08 03:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by ☆Soon 2 be Mom of 2☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys should always pay for everything on dates
2007-01-08 03:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by LC6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋