hes got lots of zits and hes overwieght and im as skinny as a twig
2007-01-08 03:05:03 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks aren't everything, in face it's the lowest on the totem pole. You say he has zits which means he is if not you both are young and people grow out of zits, it takes time. He could also lose weight while you could gain a few pounds. You are both too young to make these kind of long lasting complaints. Things change in life and if your heart is really into him, keep him and the both of you can work the minor details out, you have the rest of your lives to do it.
2007-01-08 03:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ?!!! girl if he's good to you hang on to him, it's so hard to find a good guy,he could always lose weight, you could suggest things like the two of you going for a walk/run together and other things to keep in shape and get him fit, and he can always lose the zits, but if your that shallow let some one have him who will appreciate him
2007-01-08 11:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy... that's some harsh statement coming from you. I suggest that you figure out what you want. If you want to expand your dating choices then do so. Otherwise if you can't stand the fact that your bf is ugly... and want someone else to replace him then take the risk. But bear in mind that there are people out there who may/may not have that heart of gold you find in your bf.
Sometimes people go for where the grass is greener. I'm assuming you are still young in your early/mid 20's. Be prepared for the consequences and heartbreak.
Good luck
2007-01-08 11:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him go to gym and reduce weight. U just go on a eating spree for a week and gain some weight. U should be proud that he has a heart of gold. Even a handsome boyfren with a dark mind may dump u. Hope it would make u happy.
2007-01-08 11:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy frog 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he treat you with respect? Does he care about your feelings? Is he easy to talk to? Do you look forward to seeing him? I mean come on, these are the things you should be concerned about. Who gives a crap what he looks like. Are you that shallow? If so then why is he your boyfriend to begin with. Maybe you're not good enough for him.
2007-01-08 11:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you genuinely have feelings for him and love & care for him then you will accept him for his zitties and few extra pounds, on the other hand, if you feel unattracted to him its not fair to keep him when another young girl would be grateful. It sounds like you have a good bloke (chap) there....
2007-01-08 11:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by North London Lady! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you shallow Hal? The zits will go away, he can lose weight, and you could gain weight... does he make u happy when you are with him>
2007-01-08 11:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by momof3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what people think. Only what you think of him. If you are not attracted to him physically then there may be a problem. You might want to get rid of him if you don't see each other physically compatible.
2007-01-08 11:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Noneyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him keep him. You know looks aren't everything. BUt it really depends on how you feel about the situtation
2007-01-08 11:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by PrettyGirl23 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say dump his ***, all the other chicks would do it. Lets not bullshit ourselves and say looks dont matter. Thats just some bullshit you tell ugly people.
2007-01-08 11:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋