Met a man 6 weeks ago, he was going on holiday over xmas &said he wld call after the hols, but it was the xmas period so i was unsure if he meant his holidays or xmas & new year. Anyway he did not call at all so i texted him saying hi a few days ago and he responded saying he lost my number, was really pleased i texted, idle chit chat re going back to work and his hols and that no doubt we wld meet up soon &signed it with a kiss. He did not however ask me out.
1) was that a polite brush off
2) is he just busy and will likely call in a week or 2 with a date
shld i just get the fact he is just not that interested or is it possible he is just really shy & keeping things light.
any suggestions - shld i answer his txt or leave it?
i havent been obsessive or pining for him or checking my phone, but he was a sweet nice gentleman and i wld at like to be at least friends and see if something develops no pressure but not sure how to instigate that? any suggestions??
2007-01-08 02:55:28 · 20 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not text or call him. Let him make the next move. Cuase if you do, you will always wonder, would he have called me?
If he wanted to go out with you, he would have called you and set up a date. Just give him some time. If he never responds, just toss his number out your phone and move on. :)
2007-01-08 02:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahh the should I call, should I text, will he call question. It's a mystery that many of us girls are still trying to fathom out and the male of the species can prove rather confusing at times.
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Do you like him and want something to happen? If so then decide whether you want to text him or call him and ask him out. If you are not sure or not too bothered about something happening then I would say he doesn't sound interested enough and you may have to move on.
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2007-01-12 02:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is interested in you he would not lose your info. He sounds like a player and he definitely is not interested. Would you really want to be with a guy who plays head games with you and leads you along. Come on, he signs with kisses and hugs? He does that with every girl and you sound special so drop him and find the man of your dreams. Be busy pursuing your dream and let the man come to you. I wish you well.
2007-01-08 03:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Execusuite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a polite brush off. Don't text him again unless he texts you first. In fact I would just get rid of his number from your phone. He knows your number now so the next move is up to him.
2007-01-08 03:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would experience a blend of issues.have you ever considered that she may be scared to regulate your courting because of what would take position?the position might want to the friendship go? My husband and that i began out as associates and hook up associates,yet by way of the years the love basically kinda developed.Take issues sluggish and do not rigidity her.If she has been damage contained in the previous,she would have doubts about all adult men.Have staying power and be conscious what occurs.
2016-12-28 09:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by husaini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in this situation, I would text him a response, but would not hold my breathe waiting on him. If he is really serious about you he will come around, but while you are waiting there is nothing wrong with having other potentials.
Life is short, live it while you can.
2007-01-08 03:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a polite brush off. YOu know yourself that if you wanted to talk to someone you would find the time no matter how busy you were. I hate that excuse, I have used it myself! lol
2007-01-08 03:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
text him back, saying "i know your busy, but would love to meet up, so call when your not so busy" Sounds like you need to chill a bit, and let things take there own course. good luck.
2007-01-08 03:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? I agree with the guy who said dont go mad over this guy.
You can throw yourself extreamly sick and it aint woth it. Ive been there done that got the t shirt.
2007-01-08 03:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Hybrid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really enjoyed your company, but that was likely a polite brush-off. He may be married or otherwise committed.
Sorry.
2007-01-08 02:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋