me and my bf, were together a year ago. we lived together for 2 years and stayed together for 3 years. i got out of our house cause i was tired of our relationship. he was very mean, and he made me feel like a bad person. during that relationship i was always doing everything for him, but he didnt care. in the end of our relationship he started to go to clubs alone and lied to me. i went over that but i started to feel empty. i started talking to a friend online and he made me realize i could still be liked by someone else. i left my house, and after 2 weeks i went out with this friend. i never cheated on my bf, and i dont think he also did. after an 1 year we are together again, but i get the feeling he wont forgive me, cause he things he was the right one, and that he never made me suffer while living together. i feel like i wasnt wrong, but i think he wants to revenge. even though i know he likes me. what do i do? he throws all those things at my face... and i'm afraid he'll revenge
2007-01-08 02:40:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should have got back together. Once there has been hurt feelings and anger then you can't very oftne go back and it work a second time. There was a reason you split in the first place and now there are added tensions. If you feel under the constant threat of revenge then you should get out now.
2007-01-08 02:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He treated you like crap for three years, and now after a year you're back together again?
Let me tell you a story. A very close friend of mine was with this guy who mentally abused her just like your guy did with you for those three years. She broke up with him for a few months then got back together with him. About a year after that I got a call from her mother demanding to know how I could have let her daughter die like that. How it was all my fault for letting her get back together with him. And all I could think was, it wasn't my choice to take him back, it was hers. But as I look back upon it I wonder whether her life would have been worth losing our friendship.
So I am going to tell you this, don't be stupid! Find yourself a guy who's gonna treat you right, not one that makes you feel empty inside.
2007-01-08 10:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by albion53151 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get back with him? You deserve better than to sit around waiting for the anvil to drop. Your online friend was right, you can find someone else who appreciates you and isn't an outright a**!
2007-01-08 10:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He shouldnt have got back with you if he couldnt get over you seeing someone else. If he cant get past it, it wil never work and you just need to move on!
2007-01-08 10:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by pinkjess85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you don't need this boyfriend you are talking about. There are nice guys out there somewhere. Life is too short to be unhappy.
2007-01-08 10:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Valerena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to get back with all this unresolved drama. Maybe you should sit down and talk with him, about how he throws things in your face and how that makes you feel.
Tell him about your worries.
2007-01-08 10:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by ♥~Gemma~♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would RUN from that relationship, sounds very unhealthy.
2007-01-08 10:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with stormie46 get out while the gettins good
2007-01-08 10:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only thing to do now is get revenge on him before he does it to you lol
2007-01-08 10:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would you go back......life your suppose to move forward....Live and Learn...........
2007-01-08 10:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋