Guys opinion ? What would you do with a girl like this? Keep or use her?

Question

Theres this 19yr old girl. She's very pretty and has a nice body (thick) She has had many boyfriends but they keep on dumping her. She kind of gets mad cuz she's consider the finest from her block. And everyone wants to date her. The reason I Think she gets dumped. Is because she is always drinking and smoking. Sometimes weed. But most of the time is regular smokes pretty soon she's gonna be an alcoholic. I dont know if she sleeps around but i dont think guys would want a person like this no matter how fine she is. What's your opion?

Answer 1

i have a boyfriend he smokes and dinkes and stuff like that... if you like her alot but at the same time you dont then you should wait untill you know if you like her.she probubly had a hard life mybe she grow up in an inviroment were her mom or dad did that... just be her firend and help her out thats what i would do if i were you...

Answer 2

If she's drinking and doing drugs, she is more than likely putting out. She has had alot of boyfriends because she is good looking and easy piece of a$$. Alot of males will stick thier thing in anything with a pulse. Then dump her. No one will take her seriously for a relationship. Think about it. What man would want to have his wife be an alcoholic, drug user that has a history of f**king other men. Oh I'm sorry, she could probably find a man that is just as messed up as her. Imagine the stable family that would be for thier children, both parents alcoholic, drug users. I know she is only 19 now and she doesn't have her match yet. But, believe me she will. And if she keeps on this path, I feel bad for her future children. Shouldn't we just be able to call child services now and get her sterilized before she screws up the next generation of children? Let's be honest, men are always looking for an easy piece. This way she'd still be available for that without the risk of screwing up a child.

You know though, she is still young and can adjust her ways. Stop drinking so much and get off the drugs. Maybe, make an effort to go after a better class of friends and boyfriends. Let her know that physical beauty fades, it's the internal beauty that lasts.

Answer 3

Well, drinking, smoking cigarettes and smoking weed or doing any other drugs would be enough for me to not date her in the first place, so if the guys who dump her aren't aware of her habits in the first place, that may be why she keeps getting dumped. If they are aware of her habits at the beginning and the guys find them acceptable, she has to be doing something really awful afterward to make them dump her. And how low are neighborhood standards if she does all these negative things and she is considered the finest from her block? I think she should start by dropping all the bad habits, and let living a cleaner life enhance her physically attractive side to creative a more wholesome image.


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Answer 4

I think guys are dumping her cause she's either a pain in the but or just not worth the time it takes to get to know her on a more social level. if she's 19 and doesn't sleep around maybe that is why she keeps getting dumped but if she does sleep around I can't see anyone dumping her

Answer 5

No one wants a girl for keeps who drinks and smokes too much, unless it is a guy who maintains the same destructive lifestyle. They're either using her for sex and then dumping her or dumping her because she's not having sex with them.

An excessive drinker, smoker and pot user really isn't girlfriend material.

Answer 6

You're absolutely right! Who wants someone who is only into themselves and their selfish needs like drinking and smoking? Expensive to keep and even more risky as a steady girlfriend because she may be infected with an STD! She needs help!

Answer 7

it all depends on the guy and his feelings towards the girl...because ive been with 3 girls like this...the first one, i met at a party and could tell she was just drunk and horny...the next day she didnt remember my name and freaked out...so that was that... the second girl i knew for a long time, was with her for some time, but it ended sadly because i was ready and she wasnt...she was fine as anything, but wanted to party more then be with her man, it was hard on me cuz i really liked her, and at the point i didnt care what she did, as long as she realized that id do anything for her...but and the last one was not too long ago, we hit it off well at her own party, and then she was emotional always crying about her problems, and well i didnt want to deal with it because i have my own serious issues and didnt wanna be another persons shoulder to cry on soo...like i said it depends, if hes really into you, it wont matter, hell stay with you, try to help you, and want you...if he just wants ***, hell use you for sex, get you drunk or let you get outta control and then play you like an instrument...or he may not like the situation at all and bounce...

Answer 8

she need to look at herself she prob is sleeping or getting on the guys. when they get together they are prob buzzed she is heading if not a alcoholic already. she has real selfesteim problem. about ten years ago I would have told her anything to get in her pants and then just had it around till i got sober and or board of it and moved on. she needs to change her life a little and she will have to learn it on her own.

Answer 9

i think she is the way she is, she just hasn't found the right person for her, i wouldn't consider her a whore or anything. Alot of people drink and smoke it's a bad habit but what can you do.

Answer 10

I'm not a guy, but that's simple. Let me guess--she's sleeping with all these guys, isn't she? If so, I just can't imagine why she keeps getting dumped!! LOL