so i've been talking to this guy for a while now (3 mths) and he constantly tells me that he likes me but he still hasn't asked me out....I always ask him when me and him will be together and he says soon...but its been a lot longer than soon...so what am I supposed to do to help him trust and commit to me?
2007-01-08 02:21:25 · 7 answers · asked by LoMo2008 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well let's see: You've already invested 3 months of your LIFE that you will NEVER get back on this fool who keeps saying "soon." Sounds cheap to me (he does). Just cut him loose. Wouldn't you rather be with someone who will tell you straight up...?
2007-01-08 02:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy and tell him how/what you are feeling. If you want to be dating and he is backing off...can he have a wife or girlfriend someplace that he is trying to hide/get rid of? Otherwise ...I would just ask him out on a date. Good luck to you
2007-01-08 02:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by baybedoll1977 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has to trust you on his own. But in the mean time, I'd 'do me' and see and do things that interest me. I wouldn't wait for him to decide if and when he wants to commit.
2007-01-08 02:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cynda32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but this whole thing is so wrong. What do you expect from this guy? If he's not making you a priority you need to move on. You're letting him use you. Are you that needy and desperate?
2007-01-08 02:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're probably too controlling. Guys avoid pig headed, opinionated, my way or the highway girls like wildfire. Stop being so bossy and he'd marry you :-P
2007-01-08 02:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by tweakk 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do you have any idea what your question sounds like and what it seems to suggest?
2007-01-08 02:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋