I'm 21 years old and my girlfriend is 18. Is she at that age where she wants to do stuff she wants to do? Should I worry if she wants to go out and have fun without me or do stuff other than do stuff with me? I want her to enjoy herself, but I want her to be with me and settle down and get married, but she doesn't. Is this a age difference thing? Should I worry?
2007-01-08 02:09:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The age different is right. She may never grow up. Marriage is out of the question until she does.
2007-01-08 02:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really an age difference thing. It's maturity. (not saying she's immature) But you are ready for something that she is not and there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe she's just not the one for you, or if she is then it just may take her some time to be where you are. It's up to you though if you want to wait around and see where this ends up. And you're only 21 so you do still have time before you have to settle down. Let her enjoy herself she jut may need to get things out of her system, you guys are both young. Sh*t, I wasn't done til i was about 25 but that's just me. i hope it all works out for you and your girl. You should be having fun too.
2007-01-08 10:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not that much older, so no, I don't think it is an age thing. She just wants to experience life before settling down, and that is a good thing. 18 or 21 is way too young to be settled down...life has barely started! Get some life experience, get out and see the world and then make an informed decision.
2007-01-08 10:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her have her fun. There are a lot of years ahead to "get married and settle down" If she does not do the things she wants now, later on in life, she will feel as though she "missed out".
2007-01-08 10:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not age, its immaturity.
when i met my fiance i was 16, he was 21.
and now, a couple years later, we are engaged to be married, and just got out own place together.
as soon as i met my now fiance, i never wanted to be away from him, we did everything together.
if you want, you could wait for her to become ready to settle down, but if she really wanted to, then she would.
good luck!!
2007-01-08 10:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, my boyfriend is 21 and I am 17 and we are already planning our life together, chances are if you are with her she will be a very mature woman. In fact, my boyfriend and I are so perfect for each other that his parents gave us their house so we can be together as soon as I hit my birthday.
2007-01-08 10:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by scareforce 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys obviously want different things...if you want to keep her then you better let her have her space. If you don't then she'll be sure to run and seek greener pastures.
2007-01-08 10:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is still to immature for marriage just let her go for now sounds like she is just starting to stro her wild oats if you married her now it would end very ugly with u getting hurt badly and you just end up hating her so be careful my friend!!!!!!!
2007-01-08 10:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by MIKE 35543 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go or you won't be with her for long. She'll dump your @ss.
2007-01-08 10:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not age she still looking............
2007-01-08 10:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋