What do i do....??Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends( but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till yesterday when she sent me a mail. It was about her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I dont know if i shud ask her about the outing we were supposed to go and i dont know if i shud reply her b/c of wat happened( the outing and not talking to me)
2007-01-08 01:40:42 · 6 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HI!!
I think with what she did, she has a reason. I know how you felt when she did that. But you must understand her as well, reply to her mail or sent her an email and start knowing her situation there. Don't forget to ask and let her explain about what she did. There's no such thing that would be understood without an explanation. Now, if it's really reasonable, she'll have it explained to you.
Take care!
2007-01-08 01:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has found someone else and you need to realized that when someone goes away almost all relationships reach an end.
Other reason is that she is really busy catching up with her studies.
I don't think she is doing that cause, she does not want to keep contact with you. Just email her but don't bring back the past, see what she will say and don't pay much attention to that.
Move on the same way she has move on.
2007-01-08 01:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by getting_a_new_life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very clear that she isn't into you.
You shouldn't care anymore what had happened, cuz she clearly doesn't care. Maybe she spent her Xmas or New Years with her real boyfriend, or someone special.
Don't linger onto her, just forget about it, and move on. That's the most cleaver thing to do.
2007-01-08 01:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on man, it's a waste of time. #1 she's long distance, #2 there's 3.5 billion other fish in the sea, and you're miss perfect might be slipping through your net because you're obsessed with miss wrong.
2007-01-08 01:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by albion53151 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking, that never hurt anything shes overseas she needs a friend..........
2007-01-08 01:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no idea sorry
2007-01-08 01:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋