2007-01-08 01:40:29 · 18 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
A REAL mother wouldn't and couldn't!! Depending on the circumstance, if it's just in general then she probably doesn't care for her child and she shouldn't have it to begin with! And for all those saying God says so, I'm a Christian woman with a 3 yr. old, married for 4 years, and there is no way in hell my husband comes before my daughter!! Look for another excuse!
2007-01-08 01:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by onfire921 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A real mother doesn't espacially in the case of any type of abuse. Once that chid is brought into this world it is the mother's responsibility to care for that child...However some women are insecure and feel the man they are with are there only hope, so they deal with it, others are to afraid to do anything. But at the end of the day. They've betrayed and hurt their child, most likely causing that child some deep emotional promblems
2007-01-08 10:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jerri M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No real mother would put anyone/thing above her child. I don't go along with that line of thinking that the Bible says hubby's first, kids second. Bible-written by a group of men who wanted women to be subservient and make lots of babies to fight in wars. God-gave every mother a desire to protect her offspring with all her being (look at all the animal mom's who fight to the death to protect their babies). I think that women who put anyone else over thier own kids are denying their God given instinct to protect their kids.
However-having worked in social services for 10+ years, way to many women do this everyday. Just because you can pop out a child doesn't mean you should! Women view kids today as a means to money-the more you have the more you get (child support, social service funds). It is a sad state of affairs all the way around!
2007-01-08 11:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by VAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every real man knows that the child comes first and should not put a woman in that position. Some women feel desperate to keep their man and do things they shouldn't. Let face it many relations come and go but blood is forever. If he doesn't understand - he's not the right one.
2007-01-08 09:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she is either getting it all the time and feels very good (sex)and/or is getting that paper paper money. they shouldn't put their child in that situation but it happens because of those two reasons. But after all a child is your blood and when you'll need them the most, when you are old and helpless you would want them to be there for you. Wheres that man now!!!!
2007-01-08 09:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by JalRegs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may seam extreme to some but during one of the hypothetical conversations with my husband "if you ever hit me/our child are abusive etc.", probably after watching some show on lifetime, I outright told my husband that I love him, but our kids come first. I don't care who you are, nobody is going to abuse our kids with my knowledge. So IMO no decent mother would ever put a man before their child.
2007-01-08 09:46:38 · answer #6 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women have a fear of being alone. I am sure that any decent man would not demand that a woman put him before their child.
2007-01-08 12:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very selfish one with her own interests at heart. A GOOD mother puts her children before everyone and everything.
2007-01-08 09:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither parent should ever put any person before their child.
2007-01-08 09:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by Susie D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biological mothers do not always have unselfishness in them this is the age of the throwaway child
2007-01-08 09:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by caretaker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋