my friend, we slept together.We have told each other before, even we have our own personal life, even we are friends, we are phsically attracted to each other. We have told each other we like each other, especially him said to me that he think i am a sweet nice girl, and sexy...etc. Last week, we slept together (finally), then in the bed, i asked him do you like me?? he answered yes, i think you are a nice girl. Not a yes or no answer, then i asked again, he said' i said I think you are a nice girl, so yes I like you... and if i do not like you, i will not be with you and just had sex with you!! 'But something keep bothering me.... even we have been talking about everything... why i keep feeling he is just saying he likes me to get me into bed.... like to have me as a sexual partner plus friend...?? what is all this ... what is this like??
(p.s. he has a gf, but he told me he found something different on me which he wants his gf to has, but there is no room for him and me now...etc.)
2007-01-08 01:36:29 · 12 answers · asked by Love cake:-) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so... you guys suggest me not to contact him... see how he react... if he contact me again and just talk about when is next time and just about sex.. then he is definatly just for sex......
2007-01-08 01:47:58 · update #1
get out of the situation and get out quick he is a lying cheat
2007-01-08 01:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by super_man_4888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was a friends with benefits relationship implicit or explicit, asking him a question like that is pretty unfair. That's a nasty curveball that pretty much will get you upset at him no matter how he replies. And you really shouldn't be expecting any more than that at this point.
This should be especially expected since from what i gather, you're helping him cheat on his girlfriend. At which point, you really should probably accept the reality that you're a booty call, and that any chances of a real relationship are slim to nil.
Besides, would you really want to be involved with a guy who you know for a fact will cheat?
2007-01-08 09:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He screwed you,, used you for sex, of course he liked you, It sounds like bed talk which is Bad, because woman always find out, Men think of sex differently, if you question him about it now, you will find him scramble for a excuse,, and if he ha a GF already he is a cheater,,
2007-01-08 09:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever his meaning, if you are not 21, you need to stop this activity TODAY. And if you are over 21, then consider this as being friends with benefits.
Does he like you?? Sure, he's getting sex from you and companionship from his gf. What's not to like ?
2007-01-08 09:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and get out now...
No man worth having would cheat on his girlfriend this casually..
My bet is that he IS just trying to get you in to bed... This is the advice I gave my freind when she was sleeping with someone who had a boyfriend and wondering if he wanted more than just sex:
Stop sleeping with him. I know its hard, but stop. IF he wants you he will move hell and high water to be with you or to get you again, incl. breaking up with his girl.
Respect yourself and dont give in too easily.
2007-01-08 09:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Wannabe_writer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was not going to let a chance slip by to not have sex with you. He doesnt want to date you but he cares for you and the temptation of always thinking abotu you and wondering what it would be like sorta hard to resist
2007-01-08 09:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you offered it up, and he jumped on it. Friends with benefits, this means he will screw you, maybe take you out every now & again, but always end up back with his g/f; until she finds out about you; then you will be filler till he finds a new g/f.
2007-01-08 09:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are Pigs! We say what we have to. to get what we want! Eventually. We grow out of acting stupid. Dump this Chump!
2007-01-08 09:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
Where can I find friends like you?
He was just playing you along. He might do it again, for seconds.
2007-01-08 09:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by tlakkamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lied to you!!! And I suggest to leave him and never speak to him again. You must try to pass over this situation. This is my advice.
2007-01-08 09:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by ArchAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋