My boyfriend lives over there but he is still married and we are not sure how long the divorce will take. He is a US citizen born and bred over there. I just want to know how I can stay with him as we want to be together.
2007-01-08 01:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by bettsybl 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
Save your own money, come over here LEGALLY, get your work visa get your own place and then if and when your boyfriend gets a divorce, you two could get together.
2007-01-08 01:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by HAGAR!!! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay in your own country. The guy is married. Best option is if he does leave his wife for you , then everyone will think you are a home wrecking tramp. Worst case is that you come here and spend all the time and money and effort it takes to get a visa and he never leaves his wife, and you are the mistress.... I'm sorry to say this, but I don't see a happily ever after for you.
2007-01-08 09:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by badneighborvt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he "really" getting a divorce or is that what he is telling you?? Have him send you updates on his pending divorce, documented court papers with actual dates and time frames. I don't know how you all met, but many "married" guys will never leave their spouse for someone else??? Good Luck and I do hope he is being honest with you.??
2007-01-08 10:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol and hes ur boyfriend.how i got into this country from america is i had to show proof of being in a realtionship for 3 or 5 years.like bills in both names and that.and have friends write statements saying that they new us and new we were together for the 3 or 5 years.but my partner is brit and aussie and he came back here before i did.then he had to show proof that he could support me well after my arrival,so he had to have some money in the bank.and a friend he was stayn with ran a pub and she made a statement saying that she would give me a job when i got here.it was alot of red tape,but wasnt to bad.i dont know how it will be for you but thats how i got here lol
2007-01-08 09:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need a visa first to get in the country
2007-01-08 09:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he is divorced, DO NOT go unless he is divorced and can prove it.
2007-01-08 10:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by John G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay in your own country, show them support.!
2007-01-08 09:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by booker K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry him after he divources his wife.
2007-01-08 10:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by Preciosa 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get him to send you money to prove his commitment
2007-01-08 09:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by Boscombe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good luck
2007-01-08 09:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋