2007-01-08 00:27:41 · 34 answers · asked by Jacq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if you are lieing to them about it!
2007-01-08 00:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, DATING several guys at the same time is not wrong and it doesn't make you a ****. Getting sexually involved and bed hopping makes you a ****. Dating in the true sense is NOT getting sexually involved or bed hopping. Dating is enjoying the company of those who share your interests and people you are comfortable with. It is also a means of finding out what qualities you are looking for in a life partner. Dating only one person and getting too involved too soon only ends in disaster. If more young people dated rather than get sexually involved with one another immedately before actual relationships were established there would probably be fewer "unexpected" pregnancies, fewer abortions, as well as fewer marriages that end after the first couple of years. Dating is simply using disgretion and common sense.
2007-01-08 00:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what you feel you have to date so many. It is wrong if you have one special guy and love him but it may be correct if you want to flirt - which I don't encourage. that is my opinion. In any case relationships are so complicated and stressful, why would you really want to have tones of stress by dating several! What about your reputation? You have a lot to lose than gain by dating several, if you ask me!
2007-01-08 00:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Counsellor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with dating as many different guys as you want to. So long as they all understand that this is just casual dating. No sleeping with casual dates!
Should there come a time where you decide that you would like to try a relationship, including sex, with just one guy, then it's time to stop dating all others.
2007-01-08 00:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a double bladed sword...on one hand, the more the marrier...u get to know alot of ppl while u dont have to make a "real commitment" ur basiclly free to roam around find out all the options that maybe presented to you. . . . B U T . . . . on the otherhand, some ppl might want comittment from you, and mite want to be the only one...some guys can get jelous...but really, it just depends how U feel and what U want to do...who cares what others think...just as long as ur happy.
2007-01-08 00:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by mech_warrior172003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is under a certain set of conditions...
Are you being sexually active with one or more of the guys?
Are you suggesting to any one of the guys that he is your "exclusive" or steady bf?
Are you open with them about the fact that there are others?
Do you lie to one, if another bf you like better makes you a better offer like a fancier restaurant, better concert seats, etc...
Are you okay with it if any/all of your boyfriend(s) dates other women?
You haven't given enough information for me to judge, so I'd suggest looking at these questions, and deciding on your own...
2007-01-08 00:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to old-school ethics, yes it is. There's a stigma attatched to it. I'ts also a double standard. I personally believe that it's ok as long as you understand and are prepared for the risks involved.
2007-01-08 00:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest one at a time so you can have better idea who's the best. If you do it all at the same time, you look like a flirt.
2007-01-08 00:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Forever Rad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically "Yes" Dating is often totally wrong, because it is doing the wrong things for the wrong reasons. (I don't know what YOU mean by dating). In common usage, "dating" seems to mean getting very serious about one person. Love devided is love subtracted (and/or destroyed)
2007-01-08 00:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah it sure is!!......but not if they know about it. also if one of them is serious about u, then u are doing the wrong thing because once it gets serious, he would like it to be exclusive.
if all the guys u are dating are doing the same thing as u, then have a blast! u got urself a rollercoaster ride!
2007-01-08 00:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by spydruler 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...i think it depends on the reason on why are you dating so many guys and the nature of the dates. for example, if a gal dates 3 guys and she is thinking of sleeping with all of them and move on, well i consider her as a **** but if she is dating 3 of them to find that MISTER-RIGHT and nothing else....i think it is ok!! well...my 2cents worth!!
2007-01-08 00:36:38 · answer #11 · answered by bulner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋