my son is on holiday he is only 4 we have never been apart i miss him so much and want to go get him but would that be selfish?
2007-01-08 00:25:29 · 8 answers · asked by cams 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Thats a sign of a good parent, just keep feeling that way,it will help alot when he gets old enough to notice how much you love him,mine is 19 and in collage and i feel like that too!
2007-01-08 01:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by overdriver64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would think you would be happy for your son. Yes, you are being selfish kids need to do things separately from their folks it broadens their outlook on life. He isn't an extension of you he is his own person look at him that way.
Go find some videos to watch, get to the library and find some good books, find some volunteer work to do on your off times. If your that centered on his life what will you do if he goes to school, summer camp or when he moves out in 14 years!
2007-01-08 00:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always hard to not see your children for the first time. I had to be without my son for 5 months while I went through boot camp. But it was ok. No its not selfish for you to want to have him back but it will be ok.()
2007-01-08 00:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 09:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's normal to miss him, but think of how much you'll enjoy being with him when he returns home. Enjoy yourself, and find things to do that you don't do when he's home. The first separation is always the hardest for mothers.
2007-01-08 00:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal that you miss him, and it isnt selfish at all....BUT just try to enjoy your free time. Do something that you cant normally do with your son.
2007-01-08 00:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not selfish, just a parent's love. Go visit him but no need to tear him away from the fun. He will enjoy it more knowing his mum / dad is there.
2007-01-08 00:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by eazz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
use this time to have fun, it will also help the time pass faster while your son is away. go to the spa, the movies, bowling...just have loads of fun
2007-01-08 00:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋