I really want to talk with this girl whom I like more often during schooltime. I used to be able to talk with her only during our tuition or other school activities, class projects because at usual time she is always with her friends. What I have the courage to do was just to text her sometimes. I have previously told her my feeling but she said she just want to be friends.
It seem that I could not talk with her; I could not even start a conversation. She also didn't start the conversation, so we rarely talk. It's just that I am too shy. What should I do? She is always with her friends! Now I do not know how I should give her the birthday card that I have made for her! thank you
And should I just give up and forget her? But, you know, I really love her and she is the most special girl i have ever met in my entire life! It's not just physical attraction!
*We are 14.
2007-01-08 00:16:20 · 7 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok the problem is tht you have to stop being shy, a man is soppose to be bold,outgoing, strong, and a leader. no girl want to go out with someone who is shy because they feel like you cant protect them. if your scared of her then whts going to happen if you have to protect her. being shy makes you look weak and lack of confidence! us girls we want someone who outgoing so we can be like my bf will kick your a s s! you have to take charge i know it hard but only girls are soppose to be shy! if you want her then she needs to know tht she will be secure! not be with someone whos even scared of talking to her! you need to grow some nuts and let her know tht you can be a man and take care of her, tht if she brings you around her friends you wont get all shy and just stand there looking like you dont belong there.becoz if your scared to talk to her in front of her friends whts goin to happen if you go out with her? u know her friends are still going to be there! so it s alot better to do it in front of her/them, you have to be out going even if your scared just do it, if shes with her friends be like hey can i talk to you for a second , just walk up to her say happy birhtday and give her the card and walk away trust me she will think of you different and know tht you have confident because you dont care wht her friends think and u just like her. if you dont stand up for yourself and take charge or she will only want to be your friend . do something she would expect you to do tht way it will open her eyes! if you keep being shy shes goin to act like your not even there! i not saying be loud or try to act cool! just be talkative, when you bump into her talk bout the class, make fun of the teacher ask her whts shes having for lunch? or did she see tht show last night, tell her cute shoes, talk bout the weather,tel bout something funny. long as you talk to her, look at her in the face smile keep eye contact dont look at the floor or get nervous! let her know how great of a person your are! talk to her but keep it short, and if you dont think you can do it just think of this if you can't do or dont try to do try to dso it soon, theres alot of other boys who is then you will never have a chance! so keep tht in your mind! everytime you get scared or shy just be like if i dont try then some other guy will and go out with your girl
2007-01-08 01:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by butta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the birthday card and be friends. It's easier to start a conversation when you don''t put pressure on this to be anything more. Only time will tell if you two can take it further from here. Rushing into this means not giving it time, not giving it time means never finding out if you can be more than friends... so give it time.
2007-01-08 08:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by eazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont keep telling her you like her just try to be her friend right now try to find jokes to make her laugh! plus dont be shy it makes ou look like a geek! just try to se if you can tak to her in front of her friends becoz it doeesnt matter wht they think you dont like them anyways and they are just jealous! just be confident and make small talk when ever you can keep it short and go on with your day1 you'll when the time is right to try again good luck
2007-01-08 09:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by butta77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you need to do is get her to know you better than if see still don't like you if not then just be friends only and don't be shy you never get anything done that way.
2007-01-08 08:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by baller tom #1 chick magnet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she said she just wants to be friends than you should respect that and just be her friend
2007-01-08 08:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could help =(
2007-01-08 08:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love? 14? trust me it is lust, not love!
2007-01-08 08:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋