A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him and texted him calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then three days ago, I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all and still hasn't. Yesterday, I came up to desk to say hi but he's ignoring me. What do you thi
2007-01-08 00:12:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wellllll.........................
he's sad, he's a gud fo nothin, dnt waste ur preciouz tym behind uzeles guys dude,
date another guy instead, follow dis policy sis!
2007-01-08 00:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hurt, confused and looks like he is not sure about what he wants. Its like he is in a long distance relationship and truly loves the other girl yet he misses company and wants to have someone to fill the void. He thought you would be there to do just that but somehow you have walked out and hit the nail on the head. He is in denial about what he misses and what he wants from you. I suggest, take time off, you have done more than enough by offering an olive branch. Let him sulk, search his heart (and probably his intentions) and do what he feels is best for him. Just give him time and act like nothing is eating you up. Perhaps he will see things more clearly. In the end you can only do this much. Best of luck and sorry for the tricky situation.
2007-01-08 08:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Counsellor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through the same thing i am right now. Obviously, he thinks you are a complex woman. If he does not respond it means he wants you to fk off because you have disrespected him for no reason. Men hate it when woman give them a random attitude and that is what you did. Maintain your distance for about a month then he will come back for you. After a month if he does not come to you then approach him with a "we need to talk." Expressing your feelings really early is bad because it scares most guys away. Guys would rather avoid the situation then get attached to another woman. All you have to do is fix the friendship that you broke. Adjust what you can asap.
2007-01-08 08:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by minispears05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't appear to be interested in having a relationship with you. It's time to move on and find someone else, office relationships are not a good thing to get involved with, they get very complicated.
He has a girlfriend, he's taken, time for you to find a b/f and get on with your life.
2007-01-08 08:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have said and done cannot be taken back. All you can do is apologise. It's on his terms now I'm afraid. A big enough man who treasures your friendship will get over it.
2007-01-08 08:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by eazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that it's over between you and him. Back off and give him space.
If he rethinks things and wants to start afresh with you, then see whether you want him. But don't push him now.
2007-01-08 09:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋