dealing with trust issues?

Question

I read a question earlier on regaining trust.which had me thinking about if I could ever trust my husband again after he cheated on me.in which he still says that he hasn't.So why does everytime his phone rings he has to look at whose calling before he answers it,why does it take him minutes to tell someone that they have the wrong number,he can be on the phone and denies that he was,he plays like he is stupid when you ask him anything he be like who,what when,why,how.he likes to try to make you feel like you are seeing,hearing things.crying broke the day after he gets paid if not the same day just lying cause he thinks he's good at it. So I decided to go back some years with this trust thing.Realizing that I can't trust him as far as I can see him.I have trusted him to do things in the past and he still hasn't done any of them,I trusted him to be faithful,to stand by me,to comfort me,to be there when I needed him.He just let me down time after time so I have decided to call it quits.

I have been with this man for 25 years and I thought that he was worth fightin for but I was wrong. I have said that I would do what it takes to get him to stop cheating.He's never going to quit.So I have decided to get out.And let someone else put up with his ****.Am I wrong to feel this way.

Answer 1

Good for you and you will be the better for your choice.You certainly deserve some one as wonderful as your self,never forget that.

Answer 2

sounds like you have made the best decision. It is time for your relationship to be totally over, once the trust is gone so is the relationship

Answer 3

I have no idea what your question is. You asked if you can trust him but then you went on to tell us you can't. So the answer is your answer. You can't trust him.

Answer 4

good for you, you need to find a real man not just someone who will cheat on you

Answer 5

maybe