im 24 lonley and horny what is my problem.?

Question

i really dont know what is wrong with me, who knows you can never see youreself as you really are, im male still a virgin, i just dont know were ive gone wrong, i really dont, i think im a really nice person caring and giving, i think im alright looking, but like i said you can not see youreself as you really are, i have never had a date, i never thought i would end up like this, im almost 25 and ive hardly had a conversation with a woman, what do you think is wrong with me really just speak youre mind, really should i just kill myself, dont fell bad about saying i should, youre honesty will be more respected to me then youre lies, thax mark

Answer 1

You spend too much time on the internet asking questions and not enough time living!!!!

Answer 2

Hmmm sounds to me, you lack self -confidence, and thats probably what is keeping you from the ladies. Yes being 24 and a virgin is a bit odd these days, but if I met a 24 yr old male virgin, I would first be like "why is he a virgin" .Cause it's rare. If you have no weird reason to be, it's perfectly fine.
I don't think you should kill yourself, my good friend is 22 yrs old and he's a virgin. and he's very good looking, it's just throughout highschool he was"the dork" and now he's not, but throughout the whole highschool learning process on how to socialize and such, he didn't learn, so it's hard for him to talk to women.
What you could do, is (i dont know how you dress or look) but make sure you keep up a clean cut look. goto a hairdresser regularly, and shower 2 times a day, Wear clothes that fit, usually jeans and a Tshirt look hot on guys. It's all about presenting yourself. If you are confident then others will see, and it's easier to feel at ease by you.

Woman are fickled - I am one and I admit it- I like guys who take car of themselves, regardless on their looks.

You being a virgin is nothing -don't fret over it. my friend deosn't. He now is going to wait until he get married. And I applaud him on it. Shows strength and character.

So make sure you're clean cut - smell good-clothes look good. Keep your head UP.and don't be afraid to say HI......hi is the best pick up line ever....

Answer 3

I'm 37 and all the "love" I've got, I had to pay for it.

Yes, I know, I'm not a moral authority.

Well, something is likely to be wrong with you. Or with the world. But since changing yourself is a lot easier than changing the world, let's assume it's you.

It can be either a character flaw, or a physical flaw. Since character is a lot easier to change than, say, your height or your eye color, let's assume it's something in your character. Makes things easier.

It can be in the way you come across to people, or the way you act. Perhaps you come across as over-eager, as someone so needy in affection that you overwhelm anyone who approaches you.

Or, all the contrary, you continuously fail at expressing your emotional needs. And come across as cold and uncaring.

I suggest a little experiment: be the opposite of who you really are for a week. Whenever you'd sulk, smile. Whenever you'd be nice, act as what you'd consider a jerk. Take notes.

Fiddle with the controls, so to speak.

Does it work? No, it never does. Truth is, the best policy is to be yourself, but sometimes that "yourself" is just someone utterly unlovable.

But at least it can give you a hint of what is wrong with you.

Answer 4

at 25 don't you work, have social contacts, are you into any social clubs or sports? You need to widen your horizons and get yourself out there. Make friends, take a class at the college---(a class that will help you meet people)--

You are in control of you---if every night you're going home after work to the lonely house doing the same old thing no wonder you're lonely---

Even a church group for adult singles would be better than what you're doing now.

Nothing wrong with being a virgin----at least you know you've not contracted an STD or HIV!

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong with you - you need to get out there and meet some nice girls - why the hell would you want to kill yourself - what will that achieve you will still be a virgin and only result in upsetting the people who care for you and love you. If you find it hard to talk to girls take up a hobby - something that you enjoy and can easily talk about

Answer 6

Hi Mark,
Go to local events, enter into a public speaking class (usually local libraries have speaking workshops or clubs). This will build your confidence with talking to people. I experienced that finding a spiritual enlightening helped me tremendously. Make small goals that are realistic with socializing and meet these goals. In a short time you will have a lot of friends (male and female) and that special someone will find you and desire to be with you.
I hope this helps.

Answer 7

Well for one suicide is always the worst choice....then you hurt not just yourself but it has huge effects on your family.

Secondly..you will find someone...and when you do you will think back on this and say dang how stupid was that thought.

But I have to say when you do meet someone then you will be glad you waited and it will all be worth it after all...

Keep your head up and lower your own standards and get involved in social activities!

Good luck

Answer 8

You have morals in a world that has few morals left. Stay the course. The right person will come along for you. I have found that when you stop looking to find someone, that is when they show up.

Answer 9

at your age you should be running at least four different girls all at one time, and pumping the whole lot of them too
and if one or two drop out get more, hey you will never be this young again, or have this chance to bop all of these beauties ever again in your life, get out there and start doing as many girls in the sack as you can NOW

Answer 10

don't kill urself. u may b shy, try talkin to a gal and go from there.
good luck