What is better quality or quantity?

Question

Have just split up with boyfriend due to the distance that we have to travel to see each other.... I still love him and i know he still loves me and wants me and due to circumstances out of our control.... I cant move up North as i have responsiablites here at the moment.... but not to say that i would not.... and he tried being down South and he was not happy.... And if something feels right and you know is good, and what feels right is to spend less time now and look forward to a time when we will have more time together.... the reason why i asked the question 'quality' or 'quantity'

Answer 1

its not about the quantity of time u spend with him
the quality lol i mean the few time u be with him may be better than long time with him
and dont loss the hope one day u will be with each other not in the north or the south
in the middle hehehe

Answer 2

With sleep, quantity and quality go hand in hand. If there is not enough quantity, you can't achieve REM sleep. If there is no quality, you could sleep for 12 hours and not feel rested because again, you didn't achieve REM sleep. The sleeping cycle must be 8 hours. During that time, the stages of sleeping move from being shallow to really deep to progressively shallower, all the while interrupted by 30 minute segments of REM sleep. At the end of the 8 hour period, you are no longer achieving stage 4 sleep, but DO have REM. The shallower sleep combined with REM provide us our "remember-able" dreams in the morning. You both win. No REM, no quality. No quantity, no REM.

Answer 3

in your case, quality is worth a shot. Seems that you already tried the quantity route, and it just doesn't seem to work between the both of you, on account of distance and responsibilities. You say he tried being down South; therefore, he made some sort of an attempt at making the relationship work. He tried it your way, and he wasn't happy with it. Maybe the next step is trying to do things his way...

Answer 4

quality - you never here people saying they want to spend quantity time - surely its better to have less time but when your with that person be having an amazing time - at least you have something to look forward to instead of it getting old and boring good luck

Answer 5

It depends on the person.

I know university professors who teach in a university in one country and their spouses teach in a university in another country, for example. That does not seem to have dampened their love or the depth of their feelings.

Although they are rather smart people. Perhaps a preference for "quality" is the mark of a highly intelligent mind.

Answer 6

When it comes to a relationship you really need both. I'm not saying that long distance relationships don't work, but they need more effort because it's a huge strain in a relationship to never see your partner. In this case, you need to decide which is more important to you, your boyfriend or your responsibilites? If it's your boyfriend then you should move up to him. And if it's your responsibilites then things probably won't work out with your boufriend. I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 7

quality is far better,if quantity is important you could get a dog or cat or something ,no it sounds like you have someone good here so go ahead and wait you'll be glad you did later.good luck

Answer 8

Quality....if its meant to be then quantity will work itself out.

Good luck

Answer 9

Quality most defiantly

Answer 10

quality


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