hi i am italian and i did big mistake a few months ago . ...
the girl i have been in relatiship with for about 2years got a pregnant with my child .. oh my~~~~~~
actually her family is very consevative and strict and they even didn't like her to go out with me . and the worse thing on this problem is that it is all my fault . we was hanging out in her place while her family was gone , and i happend to be drunken so i told her that "i want to take all resposibility of you so i think it is time to have physicall relationship "
but we didn't have condom so she was not going to do that without instrument . but i really want to celebrate our first day by having sex without condom ....
that caused the problem ......i couldn't statnd ....so i just..you know ..in her ...v****
i am horrible person???????????
what i am gonna do???
2007-01-07 23:27:19 · 8 answers · asked by sexguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The right thing - take responsibility for your actions young man - you must always protect yourself and unfortunately you have learned the hard way.
2007-01-07 23:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a horrible person, everyone makes mistakes! But now you do have a big responsibilty to help her look after the child. Her family may not like you very much but it would only make things worse for you and her if you didn't play your part in the family now. Anyway having a kid isn't a bad thing. I have a one year old girl and i adore her beyond all else and i don't even turn 19 til next summer. Sure there are some hard times but mostly it is all good. don't worry about it, but stick by her and maybe you will have learnt from this mistake... Good luck!
2007-01-08 07:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by ciara_e2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you're going to do but you need to take responsibility for your actions. You are going to be a father so it's time to grow up. Raising a child is a serious task. If you don't want to marry this girl at least be the best dad you can be to your child. Be with her through this, support her, make things as easy as possible. She will be going through a lot with her pregnancy and since her folks are strict and conservative she will also have problems with them I'm sure. Stand beside her. Do the right thing. YOUR child will need a strong father and you should be there to care for your child.
2007-01-08 07:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem? Am I not understanding it when you said "i want to take all resposibility of you" and the two of you have been dating for two years. If you love her, ask her to marry you. Take responsibility of your actions. That's what you promised her isn't it?
2007-01-08 07:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have gone out and got a condom. Now your next step is to take the responsibiltiy and take her to the doctor.
2007-01-08 07:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about havi ng an abortion you are both not ready for this and that would not be good for the child
2007-01-08 07:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry man but if you can have sex u can take the responsibility of being a father.
u'll have to step up, u can do it!
2007-01-08 07:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her or adopt the baby if she doesn't want it
2007-01-08 07:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋