I live with my 47 year old virgin sister. If i spend a couple of nights at my boyfriend's house she will not speak to me for a few days. I'm thinking of getting my own place.
2007-01-07 22:58:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might be best to get your own place. While it may upset her emotionally and she gets jealous of you, does she expect you to not live your life so she can feel better?
Whether she is a virgin for religious reasons or otherwise, she should not take it out on you or make you feel guilty for doing so.
Talk to her about this and let her know this botheres you so much that you are thinking of moving. She might just understand and begin to behave better to try to keep you around. It can only bring you closer. If she still doesn't take it ok then go ahead and look for another place.
You deserve to be happy and not brought to confusion or guilt for living your life.
2007-01-07 23:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you go looking for a new place to stay. I think your sister is jealous of your BF. She might get lonely when you are gone. Or maybe she is worried that you might move in with your man, and leave her to chill with her 47 cats. Either way, talk to her, honesty is always the best.
2007-01-07 23:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by kerbear7703 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should, dear. And she probably needs help (I mean it in the good sense of the word), for she may have some emotional trauma that don't let her accept the fact that you have a relationship.
If she is in some religious group, then she probably can't accept the fact that you have premarital sex with your boyfriend.
Even if you move out, care for her. Make sure that you tell her that you love her, but you need to move on with your life.
2007-01-07 23:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First are you sure she is a virgin ?? I think it is time you moved into your own place and having the freedom to do as you wish without any guilt trip. Good luck.
2007-01-07 23:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good idea. Obviously she can't handle the fact that you have a boyfriend that you spend the night with. Try to distance yourself for a while, maybe she will miss you and change her attitude.
2007-01-07 22:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 00:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your sister is carring for you. then why to live alone just to spend acouble of days at your boyfriend house no need ryou need her company as well sometimes.
try to build friend ship togather i am sure she wants you to be happy but maybe not this way- try to find out why she does not like this sistuation?
2007-01-07 23:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinks it's past time to get your own place. She is probably jealous. A sister should love you, not judge you.
2007-01-07 23:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him 2 marry a good person whom she loves, or you urself choose one for her. then she will understand why and what make u stay at ur boyfriend's house!
2007-01-07 23:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised you had to ask and couldn't figure it out on your own.
2007-01-07 23:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋