Have you ever dated someone that you knew you had nothing in common with and deep down did not like to be seen with them in public , you know your family and friends would totally hate them if they ever knew them, if so how did the relationship eventuate.
2007-01-07 22:53:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and finally i realized that if i couldnt stand to be seen with him that our relationship would never work out...so i broke up with him and now we are still pretty good friends. hope i can possibliy help
2007-01-07 22:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by xhaleyxcopterx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know why I ever did! Well I guess it was the first time I had a bf and I was more of checking out what it was like. We had something in common---same course in school but that was about it. I knew we would never end up together while he talked about marriage in the future and stuff. We were okay, but yes, I was ashamed, and did not want a permanent relationship with him, did not want kids and a future with him. You wouldn't with a first boyfriend would you? I split up with him after university and tried to explore the beautiful world out there. Since he wanted an exclusive relationship (like I can't have other platonic men friends!), while he flirted with others, thankfully, that was one more reason why I thought he should be dumped. That was one of the most rewarding and great decisions of my life, and I still pat myself on the back for it. Liberating! Though he appears in my dreams (nightmares?) stalking me. I wake up happily in the present...with my 3rd ex-boyfriend---now wonderful and beautiful husband and little children.
2007-01-08 07:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by mrsarkitek 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I did! He was bisexual...not that it's a bad thing but he would talk about how he had the hots for Sean Connery. He farted when he walked and had the most disgusting eating habits. He also had the smallest penis I have ever seen (we didn't do anything but he showed it to me to ask if it was small...I lied). I was not attracted to him at all but I thought I would give him a chance. Anyway we broke up after a week and a month later he claimed to be in love with me but I told him we should just be friends.
2007-01-08 06:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by patriciamariegrant 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No I never did ... What would be the purpose if you have nothing in common, no public appearance and no one else would like them. Thats sort of cruel to lead someone on that way
2007-01-08 07:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by Chele 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're with them for a reason so they must possess some things that you are looking for in a boy friend. If you are ashamed of him then everyone else will be but if you're confident about the choice you have made to be with him then this will be projected. If you truly can't find a reason for being with them then you should break up because its not really fair to either of you.
2007-01-08 06:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I dated a guy once as a favor to a friend. I didn't really like him and wasn't exactly my type. I was embarrassed to tell other people. It led to us hanging out in a group as friends and I fell in love with him. It didn't take long until someone asked me about it and instead of feeling embarassed I was proud because of what he was inside. We ended up dating 3 years and almostgetting married, but it didn't work out in the end, but not because of how we started.
2007-01-08 06:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dated a girl from the wrong side of the tracks that my fathers friends pulled the pi..ss out of him over when they found out. He gave me the choice of leave the house with nothing and live with her or break it off. I was 17 then and tearfully broke it off, now 32 and it really hasnt affected my life.
2007-01-08 06:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by fsjock 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hell yeah, I "picked up" the town bike one night and she wanted to go raging. I took her on a nice scenic drive around the coast where we consumed lots and lots of beer. Same result....lol....but at least I dropped her off home at 4 in the morning and I don't think anyone ever saw us together....PHEW!
2007-01-08 07:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know a girl who said that she would not touch this guy with a tip of the stick, but they ended up dating for 4 years, and broke up after woods.
2007-01-08 07:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by rulik33 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No why date someone you are ashamed of? Someone you really like you would never truly be ashamed of so why date someone you don't really like?
2007-01-08 06:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by caralinar 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋