i slept with a friend of mine last week. (he is a guy, and i am a girl). He called me right after we both left the room, to say that was really nice...etc.(even he has said that when we just finished the sex a lot of times) But 3 days now.... who should contact whom first? Either by phone, email or sms??
2007-01-07 22:48:16 · 16 answers · asked by Love cake:-) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He said it was really nice when we just finished! Then he called me right after we left each other to say it was nice and he is looking forward for the next time. Even he let me to save the changes to use for next time to get a hotel room....And also said we can send sms or call each other next week...etc...so.....who should contact whom first?? I mean i feel a little weird if i call or contact him first...(you know, girl's thinking)
2007-01-07 23:02:53 · update #1
Michelle, I wish I had read your love story two weeks ago, then I might of prevented you from going through this uncertainty and confusion that you are presently going through.
Lets call your guy friends Adam, and the new one Bruce, OK
We, humans, sometimes see other people's lives better than our own.Until we get to know them personally, we then begin to see their problems.Every relationship have problems, and each has the responsibility (and some times the joy) of solving the problems that are trying to divided our love ones apart.
What happen to Adam and you in one week? Did this relationship ended so soon? What about Bruce? Is his relationship with his gal ended too? Maybe, that is why he haven't call you , you think? Don't contact him yet, it is to soon.
Work on your relationship with Adam to fix it or end it quickly. Don't mention Bruce. You will get more confused. Try to forget Bruce for awhile, he got his problems to deal with.
No one can say for sure how this love story will end. It is uncertain if Bruce will ever call you back again. say a prayer and good luck.
2007-01-08 00:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well see this all depends... did he say he was going to call you. If not he may think you feel wierd about it as you were friends. If he said he would call you then he should call but most guys fail to do this.. (i always call if i say i will) If he said he was going to call dont call him.. wait for him to call you. Other wise give him a call let him know everything is ok and see if he is ok. He may be freaking out too. Or you can just call him up for another booty call if that is what you are wanting.. he may like that.
2007-01-07 22:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in this guy, contact him, but be prepared for any reaction that means good or bad. If you want to play cool, don't contact him 1st, again, be prepared for any kind of outcome. I would wait a couple of days and then contact him. If he scoots, then I know instead of wondering day after day even after he has moved on.
2007-01-07 22:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by eazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he should be the one to contact you. But I do find interesting that he hasn't called you in three days. Why? Give him a call, and see how he reacts to your call.
Make sure he is really interested in you as the beautiful person you are, not in using you as a sex doll.
2007-01-07 22:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by David G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call and gauge his attitude.
If he blows you off, he probably feels a bit guilty and isn't sure if he wants to get into a relationship or whatever.
If he is friendly and wants to get together, then great! Make a date.
What are you looking for between the two of you?
2007-01-07 22:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him!
Guys love it when a woman calls them, just like girls.
Advice: Don't pressure him about the NEXT time you'll be together... just mention in your best sexy voice how much you enjoyed the last time. He'll ask you out immediately.
Good luck!
2007-01-07 22:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by bogart_that 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He should be contacting you. If a guy is interested - he WILL call. Otherwise - he's just a player, and was simply using you, or he doesn't care this much. In which case, you trying to contact him will only make you look desperate and pathetic. If you don't hear from him - just move on.
2007-01-07 22:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get yourself checked for HIV. I hope you used some common sense and taken some birth control pills or used condoms or some form of protection. Why do you just sleep with a guy who does not call you first?
2007-01-07 22:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by justfornets 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
coming from a guys point of view if it was me, i'd send a little txt to ask how you are and have you thought anymore about the other night.
2007-01-07 22:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by samwise311080 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're friends, call him to hang out, but not to inquire about the "relationship".
2007-01-07 22:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋