if you like someone, is it sad/freaky/weird to do 'secret admirer' stuff? all I'm thinking about doing is sending them a poem, no stalking or anything like that. but is it creepy?
2007-01-07 22:47:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heck no, who doesn't like a little suspense in life? It's flattering, keeps your curiosity going, it's just plain fun. Long as it doesn't last too long. Once it goes beyond a couple of weeks, it's crossing the line to creepy.
2007-01-07 22:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by mjcalohan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better if you can try and pluck up the courage to let them know in person, even though some people might like the idea of a secret admirer others may get freaked out. i think it depends how well you know the person as well. if a mate dont bother fart ****-ing around just tell them.
2007-01-07 22:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by yamyam2472000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its really romantic although my sister had a note left on her car once by a secret admirer and was totally freaked by it she felt that someone was watching her or something.
Good luck x
2007-01-08 01:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by sarahlou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you scared of? Your a girl are`nt you? a man is always flattered( I am assuming that it is a man or things might be a little more complicated). Tell him.( I would think things thru if it is a she)
2007-01-07 22:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mark S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure about that. just been let out the police station for the third time in a week for peering into my neighbours bedroom window with a large telescope i set up in her garden. tread lightly is my adivce
2007-01-07 22:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Troubled Joe(the ghost of) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's romantic and a bit different. Go for it. I'd be flattered and I bet he will too.
2007-01-07 22:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by lataliano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not creepy.i once slipped a note in a guy i liked a lot 's locker.i never told him who i am.but i left my number.and he called.it took me a while to agree to meet himwe had a fling and we still close friends.try it
2007-01-07 22:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by tot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not freaky at all!!
Its nothing that u should be ashamed of
2007-01-07 22:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Fancy_shit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old you are. If you're still at school go for it, if not then its a bit wierd and you should be more upfront about it.
2007-01-07 22:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. it is a romantic unique approach, which i think is cute not creepy!
2007-01-07 23:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by sharpmurray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋