I’m a committed Christian and 1 week before Christmas, I was burgled. Everything was stolen, even all Christmas presents. Obviously, I was and still am to a certain extent still very upset. I attend a bible group/fellowship every week with 5-6 members. The thing is, even though these members know about my recent crime, not one of them has been to visit me, or phoned me to see how I am or even asked how it all happened, etc or if I need anything. One of the members has had a hip replacement and they’ve all seemed to have found the time to visit her in hospital. How do I get over the disappointment I feel with my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ, who I thought would be more supportive? One did ring me and all he did was quote me 3 verses from Psalm 23!
2007-01-07 21:46:45 · 13 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I totally understand. I had visited a church several times and thought it might be the one church I could actually be comfortable in. I was baptized and joined the church. A few months later, I had a hysterectomy and had to come to terms with the fact that I would never have children. NO ONE from my church called, wrote, or anything. I never went back again. I did not want to fellowship with people who did not care about me. Some people who go to church do it so that they can appear holy and sanctified. They pretend to love God and other people, when in fact, they care only for themselves. If you still want to fellowship with the folks you mentioned, I would ask them directly why they weren't more supportive and tell them about your disappointment. It might make them think. Otherwise, find some Christian friends who actually love others. Peace.
2007-01-07 21:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by superfluity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This experience goes to show you that even so-called "Committed Christians" are only human after all.
Could it be that these friends of yours perceive illness differently from having your earthly goods stolen?
Whatever one's religious belief, it never hurts to treat others as you would like to be treated. Be sure to phone or visit with the person with the hip replacement. I've had one of those myself and know that being stuck at home for several weeks can get to you.
And it never hurts to tell your group how you feel if you wish. You thought they would be supportive; they didn't react as you thought they might. Tell them what your needs were and how you felt after the robbery. Tell them what they could have done differently.
Or, you could file this experience and get on with things.
2007-01-08 05:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kraftee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very sad but not surprising...you sound like a very nice caring person...a true Christian...the others sound like 'Bible Bashers' and there is a big difference as you have just realised. The disappointment that you are feeling is a real lesson in life, I know because I used to believe and trust in people, thinking that they would do as I would but....people aren't always what they appear.
2007-01-07 22:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by reggie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is common within Christian circles but there is a fix. If you were in the world you would simply find better friends. Do that within church even if it means moving to a new one. Sometimes that dissatisfaction is what God uses to make people move to where He wants them. I gave this advise to my sister who moved to a church 20 Min's further away but she loves it still 12 years later. You need real friends in or out of church. All the best. Sorry you were robbed but I'm sure God will turn it into good for you - when I lose something like that I tell the devil - thanks, now God can give me a better one.
2007-01-07 22:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the only way to cope with disappointment is to know that when judgement day comes those who have be faithful and true to god will have eternal life and those who worship the devil and fake idols shall die so you thief will not survive the judgement day look what happened to Babylon it was a corrupt place so God destroyed it also remember in heaven you will have everything that you will need to live with Jesus and God worldly processions can't be take with you into heaven I know that it sound harsh on my part and I mean no offence by what I say but the Bible does say travel light what I will do for you is I will pray for you tonight to help you get over your ordeal
2007-01-07 22:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Morphius 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Goes to show that religion is baseless, transparent crap. All you can do is remind yourself that life can be a real **** sandwich & try to have a better year in 07 by devoting more time to yourself & those who truly do care for you, rather than a bunch of zombies who chant bible quotes. Best of luck & I hope the snake who robbed you gets pack raped by horses.
2007-01-07 22:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by MaxPower 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dearly beloved poopsy, you are Loved by our father the great I Am and his son Jesus Christ, and if you ask in his name for the leading of the Holy and Life giving Spirit, he will help you through this dark time.for I know what is happening to you, you are being attacked by the father of lies, his purpose to put you off, he considers you dangerous to his nasty plan. there for you are very special in the sight of God.Jesus Christ. and the Holy spirit. hang on to that you will not regret it. in the mean time. I ask our father God the great I AM in the name of Jesus Christ and with the power of the Holy Spirit that he will comfort you now and bless you and yours.Amen. It is So. yours in J.C. peter william lack. or peace with love.
2007-01-08 00:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is full of disappointment. You don;t need to be a religious person to cope with it, - you just need to be a human being. Join the club!
2007-01-07 23:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are barking up the wrong tree with your religion. Having faith is more important.
Your so called 'friends' have shown their true colours. They don't value you as a person so leave them to it.
2007-01-07 21:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by bluenose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend, I know how you feel. This is why the Lord says to keep our eyes on HIM and NOT on man, who will always disappoint us. Perhaps He is trying to teach you this truth.
It is hard and they SHOULD be there for you, but do not let Satan have the victory in this situation. Keep your eyes on Jesus who is your strength and your joy.
Please Lord Jesus, I bring my sister before your throne of grace. Please see her disappointment and hurt and send Your Holy Spirit to minister to her. Bless her and increase her portion. Help her to keep her eyes on You. In Jesus Name.
2007-01-07 21:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by ccc4jesus 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋