We went out over the weekend with friends and he was rude and critical to me for basically the entire night. He'd say things which would embarrass me until i got pissed off and avoided him for the entire night. At the end of th night he comes to tell me bye, almost as if unaware of how much he hurt me, but I ignored him. he didn't call or anything for a day... i sent him a text calling him a jerk for the way he behaved and he responded saying 'ok that's fine i understand.' No apology. No let's talk. No anything.
I know in relationships we are supposed to resolve things but even though this has been the first time he's done anything remotely as awful as what he did, i really am not inclined to be the one to initiate a resolution. Am I wrong?
2007-01-07 21:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was not drunk. there were my friends not his.
2007-01-07 21:34:28 · update #1
It takes a real man, to apologize. He shouldnt have acted that way, and he should have apologized for it. If you really want it to work out, then initiate a resolution. Sometimes you have to step up yourself to get things done. If he still doesnt do anything about it, you should leave him. You shouldnt be in any type of abusive relationship.
2007-01-07 21:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by chickenboyalabama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he were drunk that could be an excuse other wise he was trying to show infront of his friends(guys do this i dont kno w why). Talk to him and tell him how you feel if he cant understand why you are so upset dump him he is not worth it then
2007-01-08 05:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he is doing one of these three things.
1) he wants to break up but is too chicken so he's pushing you away so you'll do it first,
2) he really likes you and desnt know what to do with his feelings so he says nasty things and shows off in front of his buddies
3) hes a total jerk and you should get rid of him presto!!!
2007-01-08 05:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ask him what bothering him if you ask and open up more then things should turn around but be careful what you say. I believe if you open up more the closer you get to the one you love
2007-01-08 05:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mark Jr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be trying to get you to break it off because he doesnt know how to. if he continues to be mean like that for absolutely no reason then thats probably why.
2007-01-08 05:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by ytrewq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋