I've started a self-help journey to help improve my attraction skills. My question relates to eye contact and smiling.
For some reason, if I look at a girl and she looks at me, its like I can't tell if she's looking directly at me and so I don't smile.
If I look at a girl and she doesn't notice, what should I do? Should I just hold my look until she realises then smile (this would be kind of creepy I would think), or if I have a chance, how should I get her attention?
Ladies only please.
2007-01-07 21:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
smile....smile and smile more..... hold your look and keep holding and smile in a nice way....not leary way, ok? if she smiles back or looks away shyly but smiles, go over and put out your hand to shake and say "hi, my name is _________." she will probably extend her hand and shake yours.
2007-01-07 21:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gad ! ! ! You might not know if she is looking at you or not so don't worry about that ,,,, Smile anyway ,,,, It doesn't cost you anything ,,,, If you want to get her attention then keep looking at her until she does notice ,,,, And smile after you make eye contact not before ,,,,
2007-01-07 21:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are books on the laws of attraction. learn about them and you will find your answers to attracting women.. for example. and this is out of a book on such laws...
It is a well known fact that "Like attracts like," and that "Birds of a feather, flock together." The Attraction oflike to like is the result of each being tuned in harmony.
It is always better to give then to receive. He who will give out the truest affection of which he is capable will in return be rewarded by the gift of an affection equally as strong, "For love brings love, and hate brings hate." If one should desire to win the affection of some particular person, I would advise him to proceed systematically to gain that desire. He must first ascertain the subjects upon which the person and he are mutually interested; the things they can think and talk about and agree upon. By paying special attention to these subjects his mental organization will soon harmonize with that of the other. This will assist him to win respect, etc... and give him a fair foundation to work upon.
If he is insincere, he cannot hold the affection. If one desires to make enemies for himself and destroy his success and happiness, he can do so by the use of his own mental thoughts. He has to send out to others the thoughts of hate, revenge, etc. and they will return to him and destroy him. We all have the liberty of choosing which we wil make for ourselves, friends or enemies..
as you look directly into the eyes of another, your thoughts must be clear in their intent of what you are seeking to find. think only loving thoughts and smile, and they will come back to you. Thoughts are the controlling force of the universe. what you think is what is..
find the one who harmonizes with your own thoughts and vibrations. send out what you want in return, with out selfishness or ego..
and it will return..
2007-01-07 21:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Spirit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm. honestly i always preferred it when a guy would just approach me and strike up a conversation. if u see a girl u think might be interesting just go and talk to her. u can tell really quickly that way if she is receptive to you.
2007-01-07 21:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by BluesPoint_98 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt bother trying because thats not going to get your soal mate,i would concentrate on just enjoying your life she will show up when the time is right when you strt stop looking she will show up
2007-01-07 21:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋