is it worth the hype, do they actually order for a girl to have a checkup to find out..?
2007-01-07 20:35:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very unfair but depends on your values. If u want a virgin, then I hope u are a virgin too! Virginity is not a recipe for love or a good relationship.
2007-01-07 20:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Counsellor 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't think that should be a deal breaker. you marry the person for the whole package, who they are. to not love someone just because they had sex before is immature. i used to want to marry a virgin guy but then i met my bf and he's great but isnt a virgin. at first it killed me but then i looked at it this way... if he didn't have a dick would i still love him? if i answered no then that would mean i care way too much about sex. and even if a person cares a lot about sex theres other ways to get pleasured (when you're in love you find creative ways to show it). so seriously the whole virgin thing shouldn't be what a relationship is based on. and when you forgive someone for their past that shows true love.
2007-01-08 04:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not worth it. I would rather live with someone for a while before I married them. If she holds out, that I would have to see about. If she's not a virgin I don't care. There are very few virgins past the age of 17 in america now. Are you planning to marry a conservative or what?
2007-01-08 04:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Marc 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that it is unrealistic these days to think that our partner will be a virgin.
Never consent to a "check up" if you are a virgin then tell him, if you are not ask him if he is.
Don't apologize for your past. If he wants a future with you then he needs to live in the present and not look at your past!
2007-01-08 04:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Rich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remain a virgin until you're married. This should apply to BOTH men and women. Don't listen to liberals. They're the reason the world is in such a mess and why people have tragedy and in their lives. They're not qualified to answer, or to give advice.
And ESPECIALLY don't buy the "how do we know we're compatible" argument presented below. Any person who thinks like that is a liberal who needs to be institutionalized.
2007-01-08 04:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Joe C 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Is HE a virgin? Why the double standard? If any man required me to have an invasive medical exam to "prove" myself, then that man in not worth my time.
2007-01-08 04:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who told you that a guy would order a check-up for her? some fundamentalists? these are stories they tell you to scare you.
what the hell happened to trust????? if he doesn't believe you when you say you are a virgin, then don't submit to some nasty doctor getting his hands all up in you!!!!
besides, people sometimes do things they regret. hopefully you find a guy that knows what understanding and forgiveness is!!!
2007-01-08 04:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not even close to important, she can do a lot be a pro and still be virgin.
2007-01-08 04:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Louy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did't know there were virgins any more
2007-01-08 04:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by TERRY P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't dream of marrying a virgin...how would I know if we were sexually compatible, if I'd never tried it???
2007-01-08 04:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋