seeing another woman. I am wondering should I tell him or not. I am worried that if he knows before he won't be fully concentraing on what he's doing, but if he doesn't know and something happens to him, she's going to end up with benefits
2007-01-07 20:34:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
I would tell
chances are he won't be so weak that he will melt down
Anyway that way he can start looking now
2007-01-07 20:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Having my husband in Iraq right now I can tell you personally, do not tell your friend until he gets back. He has enough problems to deal with as it is. He needs to concentrate on what is going on around him and can not afford to worry about things back home. This will only cost the lives of those around him and possibly even his own.
2007-01-08 05:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him. Do not do that to him now.
Heck with the benefits. Don't send a man to fight a war with something like that on his mind.
Her day will come. What goes around comes around.
2007-01-08 04:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have seen people get kicked out when their spouses start a love triangle, its called a dischrge for the good of the service, but its rare during war time, as they hang on to anybody
2007-01-08 05:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by AD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not say anything to your friend only pray that he will be safe while in Iraq and come home his wife will get what she gets according to what her actions are
2007-01-08 04:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by jedijohn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now is not the time to say anything...why didn't you say anything when he first came home ? She is still with him...at least she won't get pregnant, it gets lonely ya know...who says he is a saint..how do you know he doesn't know...I say mind your own Business for now at least.
2007-01-08 04:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Frann 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
dumb question. Never tell a man with a loaded gun their being played for a fool
2007-01-08 05:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might come home to two wives, and that's something he might enjoy. Mind your own business.
2007-01-08 04:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by ṡ๓υгƒєtt 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would not tell him until he comes home and than tell him as you don't want him to be distracted.
2007-01-08 04:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should mind your own buisness,he will find out by his own sooner or later,truth always comes out :)
2007-01-08 05:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by sweety4live2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋