ah..it's too long story to right now, so I gonna condense it into a short story. I've a female Chinese friend , and I met her in my Uni.
and I wholey helped her homework, (she is very beautiful)
and she told me that she would treat me a dinner and I believed her. but she had naver called me and I got extremly angry.
, but a few month later she called me and said help her homework.
and I forgot all my angryness, and I helped her. and she promised she would treat a nice dinner. so I once again believed her.
but she never.. and a month later, she called me and we meet without delay. surprisingly, she highly hoped to go to sea, (it was 9 p.m)and she said that she had no money, so I paid for her expenses. and she said that she had broken with her b.f that day.
so we went to sea without preparation. I was a little embarrassed
but I was happy to go to sea with her. we arrived sea late.
so we went to motel, and we slept(we didn't have sex.)
3 hours later she waked me up,
2007-01-07 20:22:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and she told me that she had to go right now, because her b.f and her b.f's mother called her a lot. so we came back to town without delay. she wanted to break up with her b.f and I am wonder that did she use me?
2007-01-07 20:24:35 · update #1
Sorry to have to tell you this Shawn but in you she sees a fall-back guy and nothing else. You are the sweet, sensitive guy who will do anything that she wants, whenever she wants, just to be around her. My goodness, she can't be that pretty (perhaps on the outside---but do take a look at the whole package) (if the insides are rotten, spoiling or turning sour--don't even pick it up).
Don't know, from what you've written, if she is truly a "bad" person or total user type....but she is playing you and you're falling for her bs hook, line and sinker.
Give up on this one Shawn. There are sure to be women/girls that are sweet & good on the inside as well as attractive to look at. Find someone with a common interest, goal or outlook on life. Leave this one alone. Don't want to read about your breaking heart in a few weeks.
Face it, some people have gotten by on their looks alone...I'm talking about this girl Shawn...... thus, they possess no depth of character, heart or empathy for anyone. Drop the rotten fruit and run like hell!
Good luck and be strong!
2007-01-07 20:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's look at this you helped her twice and she lied to you. THEN she tricked you into spending money for a hotel and "Sea" (whatever the heck that is I'm assuming it's a restaurant). Then left because her b.f. she supposedly broke up with is calling her. If she broke up with him she wouldn't care he was calling and would just ignore him. Dude. YOU GOT PLAYED! She is going to use you as a bargaining chip she was with you, nothing happened. But she can make up anything with this guy.
If I were you I'd tell her the next time she calls that the circus is looking for a clown and she should apply. All she is missing is the big shoes.
2007-01-08 05:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only using you if you didn't get anything out of it. I think she cared only about herself and is using you but did you enjoy your time with her? If you did and don't expect anything else from her then take it as it was.. something you enjoyed. Otherwise, if you want more from this girl, forget it. You probably should have learned after the second time she used you that she doesn't care too much about anyone but herself. I haven't even met the girl and I already know this about her. You're being a doormat.
2007-01-08 04:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she used you as you were conveniently available. Do not be too gullible. Keep off her and let her take care of her own problems. There are many pretty girls out there. Sorry but truth hurts. Do not go screaming at her as that will not help. Remember nobody forced you to help with her homework or take her to the sea and pay! You did it out of your own volition. Be careful.
2007-01-08 04:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Counsellor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she used you, some women tend to do things likee that when there having problems with there boyfriends its not intended to hurt anyone the woman feels lik she wants to try and move on but realizes she wants to stay with her boyfriend or will dump them and want to be "friends" with you never hook up with a woman that has just left a relationship unless you don't mind being used
2007-01-08 04:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by comacati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did a favor for a guy and he said he would pay for my dinner and he did each time that he said he would. if she isn't doing what she says she will do the girls a ***** and is just using you,get away from her real quick.
2007-01-08 04:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by debra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got played like a fittle srry to hear that. Get away 4rm hert asap!!
2007-01-08 04:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by honoroll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think she did... dont take revenge! am warning you!
dont worry...
nice dude!
and oh!
dont think of using girls as she did to you!
dont worry! who cares if you finish last or whatever they say about the nice dudes out there!
everyone will find someone!
the world is big, dont worry there's a lot more out there!
there's someone out there for you!
2007-01-08 04:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by death_black21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she used you
2007-01-08 04:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah!
2007-01-08 04:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by Kingfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋