I'm 20 and have my first girl friend that I want to be my girlfriend. How far in advance should I ask her out??? I don't quite know much about all this dating stuff, I asked her out for Sunday night on Sunday morning (idiot) and she was busy.
By the way, we can't just go out any night because she has a baby that needs to be watched (she lives with her parents, but still....), and she works 4 nights a week. Also, I have school during the day.
2007-01-07 19:40:56 · 11 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say try to give her at least 3 days notice so she can get arrangements made to watch the baby and whatever else . Give her a idea of what you want to do and how long you will be out so that all the ends are covered, and then when you do go there will be no problems!
2007-01-07 19:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by lucky 13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, yea girls usually like a bit more notice than that. If you two have known each other a while it's not such a big deal.
I'd say a few days maybe more. Call her on a Tuesday if you want to take her out the next weekend.
Goodluck!
2007-01-07 19:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friday. Ask a girl out for Friday night. Every girl loves to be taken out on that day, she's always in her best mood too since it's the beginning of the weekend. Make sure you ask her out during the week. Always take her to a familiar place to you, and it doesn't have to be familiar to her.
2007-01-07 19:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and ask what is the best time for her. If you already know what a good day is for her, I say ask her at the very least three days in advance and at the very most one week in advance. Good luck!
2007-01-07 19:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by his angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 days. Casually ask what her work schedule looks like and pick a day she's off three days is plenty of time to get a sitter.
2007-01-07 19:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 00:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A week is enough time. WITH a baby you need to plan.
2007-01-07 19:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why don't you say "i'd like to take you to dinner and a movie sometime over the next week, when is good for you?"
2007-01-07 19:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her flat out no advance to go out with you... Do not for get that she does have alittle one... Tell her that you just do not what her for her but the entire package. this includes the kid...
2007-01-07 19:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a few days at least
2007-01-07 19:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by bejewelled1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋