OK I WAS WITH THIS GUY FOR ANOUT 6 MONTHS AND HE SAID I LOVE YOU FIRST. WE WOULD ALWAYS DO THINGS TOGETHER AND THEN I FINALLY LET HIM HAVE SEX WITH ME. THEN HE HAD TO GO OUT OF TOWN FOR SOME WEEKS WHILE HIS MOM WAS IN TEH HOSPITAL. WE WENT OUT ON MY BORTHDYA BUT THATS ABOUT IT. WE DIDNT HAVE MUCH CONTACT AFTER THAT. AFTER HE CAME BACK TO TOWN, WE WERE OK AGAIN BUT I DIDNT FEEL THE SPARK ANYMORE SO I BROKE UP WITH HIM. I FEEL SO SAD AND ITS ABOUT 16 MONTHS LATER AND I WANT HIM BACK. IVE REALIZED HOW MUCH I REALLY LOVE HIM AND I FIND MYSLEF CRYING OVER HIM FROM TIME TO TIME. I SEE HIM ABOUT ONCE A WEEK, AND EVERY TIME I SEE HIM HE GIVES ME THE "I HATE YOU" LOOK. WE TALK OCCASIONALLY, BUT I HAVE THIS FEELING THAT HE HATES ME. IVE HEARD FROM MUTUAL FRIENDS THAT HE HASNT DATED ANYONE BY CHOICE AND HE DOESNT WANT TO, BUT HES KEPT ALL THE I LOVE YOU MEMORABILTY I GAVE HIM DURING OUR RELATIONSHIP. I REALLY MISS HIM AND WANY HIM BACK..WHAT SHOULD I DO..WHAT CAN I DO? ANY SUGGESTIONS..PLEASE!
2007-01-07 19:31:56 · 6 answers · asked by SassyYetClassy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For one thing, learn to type in upper AND lower case!
Second, you need to take a step back and wonder what it is that you really miss in him now that you didn't before when you felt compelled to break up in the first place. Not to be rude, but could it possibly be the "sex" factor or "companionship" need?
Just warning you to be careful, otherwise you'll wind up in another failing relationship, maybe even with the same person! Take some time to find out what you really need would be my advice. Only approach him about it if you think he can fill those needs.
2007-01-07 19:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is just talk to him. Even try to set up another date to try and get a spark going again. A lot of times it doesn't take too much to get him to realize you made a mistake. Don't make it look like you're desperate to be with him again but let him know that you did make a mistake and you judged to quickly. Even ask him bluntly if he still has any feelings for you, a lot of times that will answer the question immediately. Chances are though, if you broke up with him, he keeps stuff you gave him, and you see him often, more than likely he still thinks of you. Go for it!
2007-01-08 03:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Clay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel, that's really the only thing you can do.
The worst thing he can say is that he's moved on and no longer feels the same.
And if that's the case, at least you have some closure.
Good luck!
2007-01-08 03:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly how u feel and dont mince words. it sounds like he might just still be missing you as well. apologize and ask if you guys could start over and bulid your way up. earn his trust again. (sorry short answer but im a bit tired)
2007-01-08 03:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place u shouldn't have had sex with him dats the thing most girls dont understand u loose ur respect then he doesn't value u again.after havin sex how wouldn't da spark be gone cause he's gotten wat he wanted except very few men.if u want him go for him but dont do it shamelessly
2007-01-08 03:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by XXxxFaNtAsIcxxXX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he deserves someone better than you!
2007-01-08 03:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by CHAMaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋