this sounds sort of weird but after waking up from my b/f's house, my toungue felt really dry and sort of numb...i did not feel anything while i was asleep...but im thinking what if he put some sort of drug in me while i was sleeping to knock me out without me noticing or feeling anything and also my throat feels really numb/sore but not the kind when it's a cold...and my vagina felt wet which totally akward for me to wake up like that.what could it be? should i go to a doctor?
2007-01-07 19:28:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
i'm thinking he used a drug to rape me...(i'm saying this because we've been only dating for two days)
2007-01-07 19:30:51 · update #1
after long thought on your "boy friend's" motives for drugging you. he is no friend. i have deducted that you have been drugged and the only motive, i think, is pretty obvious.he had something planned in advance. i am guess it invovled some pornographic photography and maybe more than one man involved. you may have had multiple rapes that night all on tape. i believe i have some psychic powers and i see someone taping and a couple of men on you. you were unaware but moving around. there plan worked perfectly. the will keep doing that sort of thing. theyh have done it before. talk to the local detectives and alert them to what you suspect. your tape might end up posted on the web. or maybe he likes to share with is real friends. probably a real hoot for him and the others. probably used the date-rape drug and videotaped you in all sorts of compromising poses and activities. you may have been raped by several friends. you wouldn't remember. contact a lawyer and prepare for this in advance. but i would pretend to be friends and you might get a chance to get your hands on the movie or a drug. find out what to look for. he may naive enough to believe that you aren't on to this stunt. which would allow you to do some thorough searching for clues. something bad happened. you can bet on that. locate either the drug(s) or tape and turn the tables on this villian. my instincts tell me one or two others were involved and has been done before. if he stalls then you he wasn't interestred but his fun. getting his prize. the video tape. hope you nail this sucker.
2007-01-07 19:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are into and do weird things. They video stuff. Don't want to scare you, but it's true. He could have drugged you to do something. Filmed it? Photos? You don't really know this person and even people you think you know really well can surprise you. I agree with everyone here that you should get checked out. The drug will stay in your system for about 24 hours.
Date rape article below.
So how do you know if you have fallen victim to a rape using a date rape drug? See link below.
I think GHB is in liquid form? Could have squirted an eye dropper in your mouth... or maybe it's nothing. If you can get no proof and see this dude again... watch him like a hawk. Hopefully you can smell a stinky character.
I know that cocaine makes your tongue numb, but that wouldn't knock you out. Think about any medications that you are taking that could do this. A lot of antidepressants are known to make the tongue numb.
2007-01-08 03:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by mmhhhhhmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to a doctor just to see if there is any type of drug in your system. If there is then dump your b/f as fast as possible. Even if your b/f didn't rape you, it's not good if he drugged you without your consent. Your dry tongue is a sign as well that you might of been drugged. I'm not sure what it could be. Just tell your doctor your suspicions and they will maybe have you pee in a cup and/or check your blood.
Also have them do a rape kit before you go accusing anyone. If the doctors prove that you were raped then you can send that asshole to prison, so he can't rape anyone else.
2007-01-08 03:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is absolutely terrible if that did happen to you. What do you remember before you were knocked out. If there was any activitiy between the two of you then i would urge you not to jump to conclusions but definitely do pursue getting a rape kit done and your system possibly tested for any drug residue. If the horrible did happen, then I don't at all blame you. But I hope you take this as a lesson in the future that 2 days is too soon to call anyone your boyfriend and definitely too soon to spend a night with them. Please be careful.
2007-01-08 03:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by lapyramid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Police. Why are you calling him your B/F if you only dated twice? Shouldn't you be more concern that you fell a sleep in your B/F house than anything else. A better indication if you were drug is the last memory before you fell asleep. Don't be scared, You don't want something to happen to someone else, if he did rape you. Did you eat or more importantly drink anything before you fell asleep. Roofies and GHB is the most common drug.
2007-01-08 03:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a rape drug, it has long since left your system. Commonly referred to as "roofies", rape drugs are not commonly found on toxicology reports as the are only detected for a short amount of time in blood/urine. You should still head to an ER for a rape kit...and either way...this doesn't sound like a good relationship to be in! Sorry...
2007-01-08 04:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by kimawah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did it feel as if you had been penatrated down there or just wet. you would know best as far as the feeling you had as far as your mouth feeling that way there could be a number of things that cause that so it really all depends on what you think happened and feel. no one on here would really be able to give a good answer that I would trust because like i said you are the one that would know
2007-01-08 03:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by emt7404 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with stina. don't shower. go to the ER now. they need to do a rape kit and some blood tests. this absolutely sounds fishy to me...get checked out.
2007-01-08 03:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by Carla S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go to the doctor and have them do a rape kit
2007-01-08 03:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was only your second date, why are you jumping into bed with a stranger?
2007-01-08 03:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋