OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My best guy-friend just called me and asked me to be his girlfriend!!!!!!!I said yes and invited him over tomorrow to my house. What can we do to have fun but not overeggsagerate, and i really want him to kiss me!! Help me pleaseeee!
2007-01-07 19:21:32 · 17 answers · asked by MileyCyrusFan♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep in mind im thirteen!
2007-01-07 19:28:52 · update #1
You sound uber-excited! I'm glad for you. This sounds like something you have wanted for a long time. (Which might indicate the tendency to come on a little strong, so don't panic, take a deep breath, and find you calm place).
An "at-home" date can be a really fun thing. This really gives you the opportunity for some great alone time without the pressure of a crowded restaurant, movie theater, and/or club.
He's already your friend, so I'm sure you know his likes and dislikes. If cooking is your forte, you can try making some of his favorite snacks or go all out and make a full meal. If cooking is not your thing, the supermarket has a great selection of ready-made dinners. And take-out is always an option. I'm sure he'll be impressed that you went to the trouble.
Set up a romantic atmosphere. Candlelight for dinner can be a really nice touch, and some mellow music playing in the background can also help set the mood. Nothing too cheesy or obvious. Any old school soul, R&B, or jazz can definitely do the trick. (Anything by Barry White or Marvin Gaye is a little much for the first date).
Follow up the evening with a movie. Nothing too deep or too gruesome (unless that works for him). I would recommend a good comedy/romantic comedy. If you do decide on a drama, nothing too depressing. I'd select a movie that you both enjoy, so neither of you are bored. As cliched as it may be, try and pick a movie with a kissing scene, then give him a LOOK during that moment in the movie. Or lean in close and show him what you're thinking about. Or just kiss the boy yourself.
If the movie thing doesn't work for you, listening to music you both like or just talking can be a nice change of pace.
Whatever happens...Hope it goes well for you. Good luck.
2007-01-07 20:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by rheame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watching a movie would be good if you are too nervous to talk to him. That would give you a chance to cuddle up on the couch in front of the tv.
Otherwise, break out a boardgame. I know it sounds really silly, but you will end up having fun and chatting all evening.
Also, be sure you have some snacks already out in bowls on the coffee table and offer him a drink right away.
2007-01-07 19:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Make him a dinner. Play a board game after dinner while drinking some wine (don't get drunk, just loosen up a little). If the conversation is smooth and easy just relax on the couch together while listening to some music you both enjoy.
2007-01-07 19:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a movie. Cuddle on the couch. Play outside in your backyard. Just relax and have fun. He'll kiss you when its the right moment, just be patient.
2007-01-07 19:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think get a movie to watch and snuggle up on the couch with a blanket, with the lights turned down with some yummy munchies to eat!
2007-01-07 19:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by happy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is "overeggsagerate"? I really want a hundred bucks. But I'm not expecting anyone to give it to me. Why don't you just kiss him? He's already asked you to be his girlfriend...the least you can do is meet him halfway on this journey.
2007-01-07 20:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Noname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook dinner and setup a romantic tablespot.
Follow it up with a date movie on the couch. Make your move anytime - the guy will be all for it, trust me!
2007-01-07 19:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch a DVD. Laugh whenever he laughs. Look at him a lot. Cuddle with him. Make eye contact when you are close to him.
If he doesn't kiss you, he is either gay, not interested, or a complete pussy!
2007-01-07 19:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dinner...little wine will melt some ice or champaigne and then if u like to dance a little bit ... and always try to have subjects in your head to talk about just incase it really got boring or too quiet and try to listen to him may be he will say something u r waiting for...good luck
2007-01-07 19:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by freddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cook!! cook something easy but good. like spaghetti or something. you dont want to get too personal if u catch my drift. watch some movies make some popcorn and just have fun. do be nervous. if u r nervous u will just make him nervous. so just have fun and DONT RUSH THINGS!!!! it will come naturally. congrats and good luck
2007-01-07 19:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by babyblues452 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋