I'm soooooooooooooo BORING!!! I couldn't work after school because my parents says DON'T NEED TO and after getting married, my husband says DON'T NEED TO too !!!
2007-01-07 18:12:20 · 13 answers · asked by mamagorilla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm staying with mother-in-law ,and husband just want me to stay at home and look after my son.There's no freedom at home since we are staying with mom-in-law because she is very pocessive. I'm a volunteer parents in my son's school but only for 2 hrs each day, and I took meditation class once a week. What am I going to do or to be when my son is indepentant and I don't have to look after him anymore ?
2007-01-07 18:36:20 · update #1
You have got a life as well and they should understand your needs. All I can say is they are ignorant to your feelings and your will to achieve.
2007-01-07 18:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Knackers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doesn't matter if you need to. if you WANT to then you should be able to. Setting at home all day is no fun! Perhaps if your husband is really against you working and you don't feel that he would react well to you getting a job, you could take advantage of your good fortune and do some volunteer work! You meet a lot of great people, it gets you out of the house and you get that warm fuzzy feeling that doing something for others brings.
2007-01-08 02:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe you need a job we all need a feeling of self worth if your fortunate enough not to have to work I would go back to school volunter somewhere they could use your services sitting at home all the time is not agood thing for anyone for many reasons all aspects of health for one I would want a better answer why he doesn't want you to leave the house
2007-01-08 02:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by lone wolf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would do volunteer work or take some college classes. You need to do something or your brain will turn to mush. If these are not options, then take up a hobby like painting or doing woodworking or crafts. Just keep those brain cells going.
2007-01-08 02:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK..."don't need to"....but, what do YOU want? You may not NEED to, but, do you "want to"? Don't you feel you need to make a contribution to society? Do you have kids? Stay-at-home-moms make a huge contribution. But, if you are at home sitting on your *ss, you may want to do something? There are so many opportunities for people that "get" to stay home and have nothing to do. Volunteer at: the nursing homes, meals-on-wheels, the fire dept., schools, libraries, church, hospitals. There really is so much you can do! Having you say you are "BORED" is just an excuse.....sorry, but, true.....good luck to you!
2007-01-08 02:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kymmie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
heheeh-- you are sooooooooooo BORED, not so Boring.... I'm guessing you might be from South Asia? Not only can this be boring, but it can also be very isolating and can create an excessive dependence on your husband. If you can't work, can you volunteer? Can you go to school? Can you write a book? Can you do some sort of home-based business?
all the best!
2007-01-08 02:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ok if u cant work then study get a degree in something especially since your child is at school and u have time on your hands to do so.
2007-01-08 03:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't need to but how about you want to? Get a part time job or do volunteer work
2007-01-08 02:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me. Unfulfilled. I'm 50 and still trying to figure out what I want to do when I grow up. Don't you just feel like you should appreciate it? But then.....I feel like life is passing me by! Sure, we don't need the money, but there are other needs we're forgetting about, aren't there?
2007-01-08 02:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by imgma2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha I don't have to work either. I am in nursing school and my parents figure I should spend all of my time enveloped with my studies than a job. It's nice to have that, but it also sucks not to have my own money. It's a double bladed sword.
2007-01-08 02:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋