After 3 months together and no comittment, I finally said: Cant go on like that, I better not see you again! He asked if he did something wrong, I said I needed comitment. He said he likes me and he is attached to me but he never thought I would want a serious relationship with him since I just got divorced. He said he wasnt considering me for marriage. I said I was ready to restart my life again in a serious relashionship leading to marriage. He asked to think for a day. The dead line was today. He text me saying he needed another day, I over reacted asking if that meant I should go on and stop seeing him. He answered if I couldnt wait one more day, he couldnt stop me to leave. I realized I went too far and apologized, told him to take his time and when he would be ready I would be there for him. He didnt answer that text message. What is he thinking? Do I have a change of getting into a more serious relationship with him or he is just thinking how to say no?
2007-01-07 17:59:33 · 6 answers · asked by guriazinhainla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The more you pressure him, the more it is gonna make for an uncertin future with the 2 of you! Relax and take it a day at a time, if its ment to be, it will happen!, DON'T PRESSURE!!!!!!
2007-01-07 18:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by dwntwnbadboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the others here. What's the rush? At 3 months into a new relationship, neither the girl nor guy should be pressuring the other about marriage and long-term committment. That's just not natural, no matter what the age.
If you really care about someone, you don't set limits and deadlines trying to measure up just how serious the other person really is. That's insane! Some relationships take many months or several years to really materialize into a marriage. It's quite possible for someone to feel stronger about you at 1 year than they do at 3 months.
Unfortunately for you, that's a big turnoff. You really need to give stuff like this time. If you've lost the chance in this relationship, then at least keep that in mind for the next one.
2007-01-08 03:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop texting that spirals out of control and takes up a lot of time.
If you fighting are over getting married then do not get married
You just got divorced now you want to get married again.
Once you start giving deadlines and ultimatums you are fighting too much.I will never be convinced that living together is a good idea.
It is not a question of morality it is just unwise if the girl wants to get married.Continue to see him but shift out.
2007-01-08 02:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by melbournewooferblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats such a pretty picture posted. Anyways he's an *** for not responding...its those type of men and I've only met one like that (thank goodness, or it would drive me insane) that have no CLASS and r immature. I get so angry when I hear about this sort of situation. I will never allow a man to treat me like that again, he will learn the way I deserve to be treated. You should too with ur crazy, inconsiderate man.
2007-01-08 02:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 3 whole months and you are not married??? Sweetheart you are just coming out of a marriage why rush into another commiment. Live life enjoy date the guy and don't get overzealous or you will lose him. clam down if it was meant to be then it will happen
2007-01-08 02:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down. u just got divorced. take some time to get to know this person, and urself. dont rush into anything. take it one day at a time.
2007-01-08 02:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by luv.me.now 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋